the lap band has helped me/give me...

 Let's see....

The ability to walk all over in non supportive shoes and not be in pain.

To work a busy 12 hr shift and not be in pain

Crossing my legs...nuff said

Confidence and pride in my appearance

not worry about airplane, amusement ride, restaurant seats..because I know I'll fit

Back my health...no gerd, no hypertension, no joint pain

Plus lots more