Is Anyone Happy?
on 5/8/11 11:30 pm
Both procedures require a lifestyle change, although bypass is going to case more plus its irreversible. I contemplated both and decided at my age and the possibility of maybe wanting to have another child, wanting to enjoy food, and not wanting to mount up any other health risks that the band would be a better choice for me. My aunt went with bypass and doesn't have an regrets.
I think it's a personal choice you need to make considering your future and how you want to be impacted. I don't think many people on this forum are unhappy with their band as much as simply trying to get advice on band-related issues. Like I said it still requires a lifestyle change and as I have told others many times when you go through the majority of your life thinking about only what you are eating to suddenly having to concentrate on how you are eating it is not nearly as easy as it seems. Most issues I have read about or personally experienced was due to not following band "quidelines" 100% although some people do have issues outside of that I see more of the former than the latter. IE: eating too fast or too much...
I swear by my band and believe it is the best decision I made for my health.
Granted there are times when I hit a low with my band but for the MOST part it's been an AWESOME journey for me and the band has given me the TOOL to have a life I never knew that I can have.
I too contemplated band vs. the bypass 4 years ago but after talking to my surgeons, we came up with the band being the best option for me. Talk to your surgeon.... have some debates with him/her and see what you guys come up with.
Good luck to you and welcome to the fun ride!
Take care,
Jan
all the weight has been lost post-op..I LOVE MY BAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
highest weight: 333 pounds (I know I gained after my last "weigh in" in the doctors office so probably it's more like 340 pounds)
current weight: 151 pounds (7/12/11)
I've been at goal (165 pounds) for 6 months now and now on maintence. I tend to go up and down depending on time of the month and such!
Oh, hell. I AM!!!
While I will never be totally satisfied with EVERYTHING ("I want to lose another 10 pounds", "I want smaller thighs", blah blah blah, wah wah wah), I BEYOND happy with my band.
Is it right for EVERYONE? Probably not, but NO surgery will be, and for those of us who flat out do NOT want a) the majority of our stomach removed or b) our intestinal tract redesigned, the band is still the ONLY option available.
I can still eat all the same foods as I could eat before the band, BUT now I'm learning to eat them foods in moderation and how often to eat them foods and that is exactly what I wanted from the band nothing more nothing less . I did not get the band to restrict me from foods and be oh I cant eat that or this , to me that is not what the band is designed for its to help curb hunger and portion control. You do need self control and will power also the band dont do all the work for you .
To me the band is doing exactly what I wanted it to do. I'm learning portion control, I'm learning how to eat the right foods for weight loss, but I can also still enjoy all them foods before I got the band also, pizza, McDonald's , chips, and yes bread , but the amazing part is I can go to McDonald now and get a grilled chicken sandwich and take the bun off its automatic to do that now and eat about 5 fries , I can order me a pizza and eat two slices of it and I'm done instead of eating a whole pizza. I can stop myself now and say okay that is enough you dont need no more .
I have Krsipy Kreme donuts sitting right here in my house and I can walk by them without touching them because I know they have to many carbs and I really have no desire to have one .
These things is what I wanted from the band and that is what I got.
steelerfan1,
You are exactly like me, we even quit smoking around the same time. my quit date is 10/10/10. everything you said about food is the way I feel. I want to still enjoy food. I love it. your right about bread. lol I think since they put me on a pre-op diet I am learning what to eat in order to lose. I can't believe I lost the 12lbs in a month. So I think the band would be best too, By the way my husband is a Steeler fan too. ;-)
Thanks so much!!
Joanna
As others mentioned, it is a tool. You will hear this a lot, but it's true. It's also a commitment and hard work is required on your part.
I've learned a whole lot on OH, so keep researching and reading the different testimonies. So many inspirations on this site!!!
Congrats on your 12lb loss and good luck with your decision.
~ Barbara