REPOST: Why *I* Chose the Band

Bette B.
on 5/1/11 1:01 pm
 I knew I was ready for WLS. 

I was in my 40s and headed for congestive heart failure. I had more medical issues/comorbidities than I could count. I was 376 pounds with a BMI of 54, taking 7 meds a day for those issues.  I could barely walk due to severe edema in my legs and feet. I looked at my options. I knew what I wanted and what I DIDN'T want in a WLS procedure. 

Based on MY needs, the band was the right choice. Based on YOUR needs and hopes, perhaps not. But it was right for ME. And it worked beyond my wildest expectations.




I know that "surgery wars" claim to be meant to inform preops of all their choices, and that is both intelligent and admirable. But when they degrade into name calling and insults, it serves no purpose but to make some people feel inferior, which we as obese people have really had enough of in our lives. And let's be honest here - when someone goes onto individual surgical forums with the sole purpose of "stirring the hornet's nest", it's not about information, it's about degradation and intimidation. Frankly, it's also egomaniacal and somewhat pathetic, but that's a discussion for another day.

The band may not be the "gold" or "platinum" standard in WLS, but right now it is the ONLY option available to people who do NOT want their gastrointestinal tract altered, cut, dissected, resected, shortened, removed, edited (whatever). The ONLY one, and that is a big, BIG dealbreaker for a LOT of people.

Prior to my surgery, I had decade-long digestive issues (which were, go figure! resolved after I had the band.) The last thing I wanted was any surgery what might exacerbate that, especially permanently. So RNY, sleeve and DS were all off the list. 

Does that make me ill informed, less intelligent, a puppet to my surgeon's whims, lacking in reading comprehension? No. It makes me the OPPOSITE. It makes me someone who has clearly made the right decision about MY life, MY body and MY weight loss. And considering that I lost over 200 pounds - more than some people who have opted for the more extensive, more aggressive surgeries - I've proven that people CAN be successful with the band!


    

Banded 10 years & maintaining my weight loss!! Any questions, message me.

Stephanie M.
on 5/1/11 1:05 pm
Exactly!

 

  6-7-13 band removed. No revision. Facebook  Failed Lapbands and Realize Bands group and WLS-Support for Regain and Revision Group

              

Lisaizme
on 5/1/11 6:32 pm - TX
I totally and enthusiastically agree.
Lisa
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." Reinhold Niebuhr

                    
Hermosa L
on 5/2/11 3:10 am

Agreed and Like

harmony9975
on 5/2/11 3:44 am
You are one of the people I pay very close attention to.  Thanks for continuing to post and "walk the walk"
Harmony
Hislady
on 5/2/11 8:46 am - Vancouver, WA
That's OK I still love ya!
toobigjca
on 5/2/11 7:22 pm - VA
Lap Band on 05/17/11 with
Like u I'm in my 40s and I wanted the vsg but after being denied 3 times I was approved for a bypass. I was cool with the vsg making my stomach way smaller but when faced with rerouting organs I freaked and now am going with the band. Unlike most I don't want to lose too much weight. Id be happy with losing 50 lbs as long as its permanent loss. Of course I'll be happy if I lose more too.
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