OT- Update on DH's interview
Well, at least I'm glad we're not kept waiting and wondering if he was hired or not so now he can just go down the list to the next hopeful paramedic outfit.
I'm wondering if his cancer has anything to do with it. Are people afraid to hire cancer survivors? Jeeez.
Thanks for listening. ..and thanks for the prayers. He aint giving up yet. Just disappointed today.
5.0 cc in a 10cc lapband (four fills) 1 unfill of .5cc on 5/24/2011.
.5 fill March 2012. unfill of .25cc May 2012. Unfill of .5cc June 2014.
Still with my lapband with no plans for revision. Band working well since
last small unfill.
HW: 267lbs- size 22-24 LW:194lbs CW:198lbs Size 14-16
That might very well have been why he didn't get the job. Employers discriminate for MANY reasons!
You might have someone else call there and pretend to be looking for employment and see if they suddenly have a position available?
5.0 cc in a 10cc lapband (four fills) 1 unfill of .5cc on 5/24/2011.
.5 fill March 2012. unfill of .25cc May 2012. Unfill of .5cc June 2014.
Still with my lapband with no plans for revision. Band working well since
last small unfill.
HW: 267lbs- size 22-24 LW:194lbs CW:198lbs Size 14-16
I'm a supervisor and I have seen first hand how people discriminate against people when just browsing through resumes...not even interviewing yet.
I have seen very illegal practices at work...
not hiring someone because they graduated college in the 70's...labeled too old
not hiring someone because their name is too weird....labled too ethnic
Now bosses see different things. You tell me he is a cancer survivor...I see a man with perseverance and determination. someone else sees a potential sick person that will need FMLA. Same with fat people and old people....they see people with potential illnesses. When you go on an interview you want to appear as young and healthy as possible. If I were interviewing for a job I would even be hesitant to mention I lost 140 lbs. They might mark that against me...instead if they ask me about anything personal I am proud of I would mention I am training to run the 5K (that screams health and well-being). I would also try to find a way to let the interviewer know I have no small kids at home....(I won't have to call into work for sick kids) I don't want come out to say kid's age because you don't want to age yourself but to say something like "now that I have the house to myself I have more time to read or garden".
All of these things are illegal for interviewers to base their decisions on but believe me they base their decisions on these things all of the time.
Thank you for your thoughtful reply! He's found the application process tough to account for the time off. He has credentials up the wazoo but not the actual experience. He was a 9th and t0th grade Biology/chemistry teacher before deciding to go back into emergency medicine. BOTH fields can grind you up and spit you out,IMO!
5.0 cc in a 10cc lapband (four fills) 1 unfill of .5cc on 5/24/2011.
.5 fill March 2012. unfill of .25cc May 2012. Unfill of .5cc June 2014.
Still with my lapband with no plans for revision. Band working well since
last small unfill.
HW: 267lbs- size 22-24 LW:194lbs CW:198lbs Size 14-16
Jolena......,
I am BELIEVING that there is something better just around the corner for your hubby!!!!!!
*HUGS*
Steph
P.S. How are the vitamins working for ya?
Lapand surgery 1-6-2010
1st fill 2-16-2010 3.5cc for a total of 5.5 cc
2nd fill scheduled 3-24-2010 NO FILL!!
3rd fill scheduled 5-11-10 NO FILL =-)
July 1st fill
August 26 fill 6.8 cc's
November 17 fill 7.2cc's
- 138 lbs GONE!!!
I am soooo lovin' my band!
It keeps me honest =-)
5.0 cc in a 10cc lapband (four fills) 1 unfill of .5cc on 5/24/2011.
.5 fill March 2012. unfill of .25cc May 2012. Unfill of .5cc June 2014.
Still with my lapband with no plans for revision. Band working well since
last small unfill.
HW: 267lbs- size 22-24 LW:194lbs CW:198lbs Size 14-16
5.0 cc in a 10cc lapband (four fills) 1 unfill of .5cc on 5/24/2011.
.5 fill March 2012. unfill of .25cc May 2012. Unfill of .5cc June 2014.
Still with my lapband with no plans for revision. Band working well since
last small unfill.
HW: 267lbs- size 22-24 LW:194lbs CW:198lbs Size 14-16
Hugs to you both!