I guess that is why they say relationships are not easy. We all have to give and take a little!

I often think of this myself! I know in my heart Dale would never to anything to hurt me but we have had some words since weight loss surgery! He has never know me skinny so the effects on him had been a bit weird. He went out of town back in March for 6 weeks and when he returned he did not recognize me. He even could not find me in the crowd at the Bama Bash! It really freaked him out. It got to the point where he thought we would need counselling. Fortunately after being home a few days, things evened out. I was concerened and even reverted back to a few old bad habits for a week or two there. Eating out of stress (I still have a problem with this but working on it diligently). I have not however ever thought of cheating on him since I have had WLS. I figured if he loved me heavy he loves me thin. Now, my sex drive has not increased since I have lost weight but I think it has to do with my hormones being out of wack. I have not had the desire for sex since I was pregnant with Dakota a few years back. I have got to work on this! I enjoy sex but just really don't care to instigate it anymore! As far as being a different person, I think I am. I am more confident! I don't think my values have changed but I do stand up for myself now more than before! I hope I answered your question somewhat right as I have a tendency to get off track! Gail

Thanks Lindy!

Her name is Gail and she goes by Beach Girl. I did not know she had surgery! If you find anything out let me know. Gail http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/profile.phtml?N=K1037221192 Here is her profile. I havne't read it lately so I don't know if there are any updates.

You know Kim it is funny the things you can do when you have too! I still get grossed out about it but it is funny now! Gail