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CaydensNanny
on 6/26/05 1:24 am - Sweet Home, AL
Topic: RE: Hey to all!
I would think when they did exploratory surgery they took a look at your old tummy and your new pouch. The area you mention is where my old tummy is. Sometimes it feels like pins and needles pokeing around, which I am guessing are the staples. I dont have a clue what it could be, I hope they didnt leave any instruments in there. That has been known to happen. I just hope they know soon, and you are on your way to good health! Love & Light, Sandy
Becky L.
on 6/25/05 11:49 pm - Madison, AL
Topic: RE: Anyone know about foreclosures? OT
I'm sorry too hon...I don't know anything about it. I hope everything works out quickly...I know its got to be stressfull. Hugs, Becky
Becky L.
on 6/25/05 11:44 pm - Madison, AL
Topic: RE: I'm here...anybody want to chat?
Hey Sandy! Thanks for the note...I ended up watching some tv and going to bed. I spent a while slowing my brain down where I could sleep. Hope you had a good evening, even though you were at work. Becky
Becky L.
on 6/25/05 11:41 pm - Madison, AL
Topic: RE: I'm here...anybody want to chat?
Actually, he's on a pretty even keel most of the time. I'm definitely the more emotional one of the two of us. I know he's tired, and he's ready to just hang out and relax. I, on the other hand, had other things that I wanted to do...but they involved going out of town, and I knew he wasn't up for that. And as much as I hate to admit it...I really DO like getting my own way! This, on top of the fact that I'm hormomonal and need to get out and be social, adds up to I am one potentially irritable witch right now. I can compromise, and if its not something that's really important to me...its no big deal. But if it IS something that's important to me and I have to give in and don't get what I want...I end up sulking in the long run and get irritable and moody. I know in my head that I shouldn't be that way...but I'm a passionate person. I'm a scorpio...intense at times, passionate...assertive...but very loving and gentle. Anyway...climbing down off the soapbox...have a great day Joni! Becky
Linda H.
on 6/25/05 11:08 pm - Madison, AL
Topic: RE: Hey to all!
Mostly my pain has been on my left side. Sometimes I have this pressure at the top of my abdomin and it will start hurting. Sometimes I feel like someone is stabbing me with a knife or taking my insides and twisting them into knots. Sometimes I feel bloated. I don't know what is going on in there, but I wish someone would find out. When I think I a feeling or getting better I start hurting again. Thanks so much for the email. You guys are the best. Love, Linda
jamaca
on 6/25/05 3:32 pm - Killen, AL
Topic: Need positive thoughts sent my way. I am hurting.
Here is a letter I sent to Joni. I am posting it because I need support desperately. Hey Joni, It is 11:49 p.m. Sorry I did not get back with you today. I have had a horrible, horrible day and have been upset most of the last two days. It is my daughter-in-law who lives next door. There are not words to describe how ugly she is to me. Today, when I went to her house to see the girls a minute, she sent the girls to their room and she told me to get out of her house saying, "I do not like you." Here is one of the emails I got from her today--and she said she was not mad. She tried to pretend Jason wrote it, but I knew he did not and he confirmed as much to me. Email from DIL to me: We would call and tell you this, but its early and we're not sure you're awake yet. (Notice our attempt to change the subject matter, rearrange and start over) The girls will be allowed to have a sleep over with you tonight and go to church with you in the morning. You will be permitted to see them at p.m. today. No sooner. You will take them to the early church service tomorrow morning and have them back here by mid-morning. You will not serve them lunch. This will be the one time you are allowed to take them to church with you this summer, as we're still not sure of your motivations for wanting to take them to church. If they want to go to church in the future, Melissa (and possibly Sheri) will take them to a Catholic church. They will go with you in the outfits/hair ties/perfume that is sent along with them. You are NOT to put any of your perfume/makeup etc on them and/or redo their hair. The way they are sent over is the way they are to stay. When you came over the other day I had to open windows after you left because your perfume made Melissa sick at her stomach. The only reason this came from Melissa's email and not mine was because it was open. So those are the ground rules. Jason & Melissa I asked my DIL what I ever did to her and she named the following: Incident #1 When they moved next door to me a year ago last April, I went around with her as she showed her Mom the house. My DIL said I 'showed' her Mom her house. I had cleaned the house really well, even paid someone to help me. I bought them a sofa, recliner, TV stand, washer, dryer, and refrigerator. Yes, I did go around with them as they looked at the house, but that was because: (1) I had stocked the house with towels, wash clothes, toilet paper, soap, paper plates, plastic utensils, glasses, ice, napkins, paper towels, food for four days, liquor for her parents, soft drinks for my DIL and Jason (my son), and drinks for my grandchildren (Jason's from a previous marriage), a potted plant, dish soap, etc. They were not expecting their furniture for several days and I wanted them to have what they needed. I also borrowed air mattresses for everyone to sleep on and I wanted her to know where everything was, and (2) I had worked so hard and it was a labor of love and I wanted to see their reaction--sort of like when you get someone a gift and you want to see them open it. That day, after I showed her where things were, I said, "Well, I guess I will leave." My DIL said, "Good." Several other things happened that time, and I ended up in the hospital four days. She never did thank me for the things I did. Incident #2 Last summer when the girls came down, I bought them dresses and a short outfit each. I said to the girls (DIL was present), "I got you the dresses so maybe you can go to church with me tomorrow." My DIL said that I said that in front of the girls so that if she decided to not let them go, she would be the bad guy. Those two incidents were all she mentioned. Anyway, I am emotionally exhausted. Another email she sent to me recently was as follows: You expect me to have respect for you and let you do stuff with the girls and you want us to be friends and you want to feel comfortable when you're over here... here's a good start. Don't make your mission in life to have everybody think that you're always right and the holy saint and oh-my-god-that-asshole-melissa-is-doing-something-to-poor-little-jacquie again. You're an adult-act like one. Fight your own battles. I'm sick to death of other people yelling at me because I hurt your feelings. Tell me yourself or just shut up about it. It takes a damn lot for me to get to the point of thinking, "oh my God go away I'm ******' tired of you" but you know? You've about gotten me to that point. Anyway, as I said, I am posting this on the board because I need positive thoughts sent my way. Please remember me. Jacquie
CaydensNanny
on 6/25/05 2:39 pm - Sweet Home, AL
Topic: RE: Anyone know about foreclosures? OT
Sorry sweets, dont know a thing about it, sending ya hugssssssssss along the way! Sandy
CaydensNanny
on 6/25/05 2:32 pm - Sweet Home, AL
Topic: RE: I'm here...anybody want to chat?
Hi Becky, If I had not been at work, I would probably have been here. Hope the rest of the night turned out well for you. Take Care, Sandy
CaydensNanny
on 6/25/05 2:30 pm - Sweet Home, AL
Topic: RE: Hey to all!
Oh sweetie, so sorry your having a rough time with this. Where is your pain located? Is it the pouch area, old stomach area or lower abdomen or maybe a combination of them all? I hope you do feel better soon. Ultram or Ultracet is a non narcotic pain reliever we can take, available only by prescription. I will warn you they are expensive, even with a prescription plan but Ive taken them for 2 years for chronic pain and they work well, Id rather have them than a narcotic anyday, they work so well. Ultram is just the straight drug, nothing added, Ultracet is Ultram with Tylenol added. I can work if I only take one, if I take 2 I get sleepy but not impaired sleepy and I can still work and function, drive, etc. Sending prayers your way, feel better soon! Love, Sandy
Joni Just Joni
on 6/25/05 1:57 pm - Sheffield, AL
Topic: Anyone know about foreclosures? OT
Just wondering. I FINALLY, after over a year, received my "summons" and notice of the lawsuit about my house in Florida. I asked them over a year ago to begin the foreclosure proceedings and get it over with, telling them I was disabled and would be moving and where did they want me to send the key. They wouldn't even talk to me. I had a realtor who had a buyer for the house, but it wasn't as much as I owed on it due to a refinancing and they wouldn't accept a short sell. I got an attorney who sent them a letter telling them he was representing me and that ANY CORRESPONDENCE should go to him and not me. They ignored that and have only sent stuff to me. So I totally wasted the money on a lawyer. So finally today I get the summons by some big bully of a guy who was practically yelling in the hallway of my apartments telling all my neighbors that I was being served with lawsuit papers. Now, get this.... They have listed in the defendants, besides me, the man who sold the house to me. Now, mind you, this man paid off his mortgage and I bought the house. He is no more liable for that house than anyone who hadn't even seen the place. And yet they have him as one of the defendants. I called the realtor that I had worked with last year, thinking she had probably forgotten about me. Since I haven't been in Florida, I had no clue that she has kept the "FOR SALE" sign on it all this time and has had several people interested in it, but the mortgage company will not accept anything less than the full amount, plus all the late fees that have been tacking on it for over a year. She didn't have my phone number, she says, and couldn't get in touch with me and there was really no need since the mortgage company wouldn't accept any offers she sent them. I imagine she would have tried to find me if they had. Anyway, she has been in contact with them the whole time and they will not even talk to her unless she has a buyer who will pay the full amount. She says it's the craziest company she has ever dealt with (I knew that much.) She says she could sell that house in a heartbeat if they would accept what the house is worth. But apparently they are going to go to the expense of foreclosure and then they will have to accept a lower offer on the house because there is no way they can find a buyer for the full amount. The realtor says mortgage companies have to accept short sells all the time and she doesn't understand why this company is absolutely refusing to even consider the offers she has had. And she is totally clueless why they also served papers to the guy that I bought the papers from. Naturally, he was furious and called her asking her what the hey. So, I'm wondering if ANYONE here knows anything about foreclosures. You can email me at dechintabooks at yahoo dot com. No sense in talking it all out here. They talk in the papers of my responding within 15 days or something or other. Since they ignored the letter my lawyer sent and I don't have the money to hire him to write another letter they are probably going to ignore, I wonder if I write them a letter, get it notorized and send it certified mail if that will suffice. My lawyer had told me that there was really no point in my hiring him because there is nothing they can do to me since I don't have even one thing of value and they can't garnish a disability check. Plus, they have ignored me and my lawyer the whole time. I don't have any experience with being a "criminal" so I don't know what to do. They keep telling me that I signed those papers agreeing to pay for that house (and they make sure they enclose a copy of my signature to remind me) and I keep telling them that I know that I did, but I had no idea that I was going to become disabled in my early 40's and be unable to make my payments. I thought I would be at my job until I retired at a ripe old age. If someone had told me when I bought that house that I would be unable to work my normal 60-80 hours a week and would have to move back to ALABAMA at ANY point in my life, I would have called them all kinds of names that mean crazy. Do they honestly believe I CHOSE to leave Florida and my little house just so I could come and live in a tiny little Section 8 apartment in Alabama? Don't they think I would LOVE to be back in Florida and do they think I don't think about my little house every day and worry about it standing there empty with the grass taking it over? I understand where they are coming from, but it seems stupid of them to keep insisting that I pay for that house when they know I'm on disability and will never be able to pay for it. It seems like they should just cut their losses and sell the house. Well, whatever. If anyone knows anything that could help me, please email me. I have lived with this house hanging over my head for over a year. I will just be glad when it's over. And I hope they don't send anyone else from the dayumed Sheriff's office to my apartment to tell all my neighbors that I am being served papers in a lawsuit against me. Thanks for listening. Ya'll are all I've got and I had to get it off my chest. Love you, Joni
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