Am I being a Catty woman?
You know, Kim, when it comes to matters of the heart, I am not one to give advice. I have had many relationships and four marriages. It is just embarrassing. I have decided that they are not worth the trouble that goes with it.
Anyway, you need to tell that Deb woman the next time that she tells you how lucky you are, you have a lot of friends who say that Pam is the lucky one.
Then, you need to sit Pam down and talk to her about your concerns. You have a right.
Hang in there, Girlfriend.