Hey guys...I posted an apology on the BB..

Hey everyone... I posted an apology on the BB. Since I emailed Shelly and she felt it necessary to send a copy to someone else I gave a formal apology without naming any names. I don't want anyone there stirring crap with me. Just thought I'd let you'll know. Beth

Once again, I am totally out of the loop I swear I should be a blonde

I wish I hadn't of posted it now because I am getting replies and I don't know who is nice and who's not. I did reply to Margie..cause I think she is pretty nice...she has always shown me support anyway. Beth

A small piece of advice -- if they are nice to you, be nice in return. If they have never given you a problem, don't create one! People are funny -- but that doesn't mean that my 2 best friends would ever like one another - even though I/you would love them both! As you can tell -- I don't know who's good/bad either --

Beth, WHY did you apologize? What happened??? I am so lost! Love ya! Lindy I will turn on my Yahoo IM SOON...............I have been d/l ing for 22 hours now!!! ggrrrrrrrrrrr

Hey Lindy, I apologized because I figured if Shelly sent my email to the the A*'s that they would post something on the BB and I just didn't want to stir up anything do I apologized. In my last email to shelly before i knew she was inchoots with the A's I had stated that I understood being done ugly by the BB ...and that Joni, Dixie and Lindy and I had all been through it..so I am sure she probably sent that to the A's. I am going to run and hide...arghhhhhhhhhhh Beth

Beth, I don't think you did ANYTHING wrong...certainly nothing that you needed to apologize for. As for what to do about Shelly and inviting her to the group...I think she gave an answer to the trustworthiness question when she forwarded a private email from you to others. I'm sorry hon...it sucks when you reach out to others to be supportive and they don't respond in kind. (((((hugs)))))) Becky

Beth! You did nothing wrong! Nothing! You offered support and she wasn't smart enough to take it. That's why I stopped reading, going to, posting on, keeping up with the BB. I wanted to help people and I needed help, but I could not get it there. I have all the friends I need here, the cream of the crop. You should never apologize for reaching out to someone in friendship. BUT, if that person doesn't treat your offer with respect, then to hell with that person. There are SO many people in this world. There are SO many people who would love to have a wonderful friend like you. I treasure your friendship dearly. That said, girlfriends are just like boyfriends. If they don't deserve you, turn your back on them and say, "Next!" That is NOT a bad thing to do. You have to take care of YOU. If someone does not value your friendship enough to treasure it, they can go find some other shallow person to mess with. You are better off without her. You've got us! And remember Kim and I are going to be having lunch with you on Friday! Love you, Joni