Final denial from Aetna...going with 2nd insurance Buckeye Community Health plan???

I just got a phone call that stated that I was officially denied for my lap band surgery (see previous post on here). First I was denied by Aetna then for appeal it goes to my employer  and they just decided to side with Aetna.

I have Buckeye community health plan as my secondary health insurance. If anyone on here has had any positive experiences with them-can you share them with me? I guess that will be my route.  I know that bariatric surgery will be the only way I lose my weight and be at a healthy weight.

I don't know what step to take from here. Feeling discouraged-been working with Aetna and jumping through their hoops since March of this year and per my PCP and the barix clinic I was going thru they said all my paperwork was 110% right. On to plan #2.

Thanks for any advice,
Angie

Could you appeal through aetna that an employer review is a conflict of interest??  Just an idea:)