Cigna HMO FL -- Need advice
Hello all,
Please talk me down from the edge here. Met the dr for the first time. He says I need to lose 50-60 lbs before he can do lapro. My weight is all carried in the front of me, my stomach and abdomen, and it's alot of weight. My stomach wall is too thick he says. He wont do open because he doesn't feel I'm in desperate need and that method is so much more open to complications such as clots, infection, etc plus the large scar. My diabetes with meds is stable, as is my hypertension. I have had cellulitus in my lower legs and have circulation problems. I get around fine on an average daily basis, work an office job 8-5, live my life ok... basically just don't ask me to stand long or walk very far. Maybe I should be glad he won't do open if not necessary in his opinion. Unfortunately, it just really has me bummed. Literally too big for weight loss surgery. Great.
Insurance then says I need 6 consecutive months documentation from primary listing weight, diet plan, and exercise performed. My primary's scales haven't been able to weigh me ever (10yrs+) and they only saw me every three months to discuss my diabetic blood work. So, I basically have to start a new 6 months now (my primary finally has digital scales), get on some plan, and have it documented. Of course, the whole argument of why would I need surgery if I could do it without, is running through my head, but I guess I just have to do it.
I was so ready. I was so hyped that I had made this big decision and now it feels like I won't get it for a long time now. I'd be willing to do 'protein only' for two months and lose his 50-60 lbs (his suggestion) but then I have to wait 4 more months to get the rest of the documentation. Jimmeny! I have at least four of the common morbidities. I have a BMI of freakin' 81! I can't stand or walk more than 15-20 minutes straight. I need this done.
Oh, and how do I lose the weight the dr wants without looking too successful in the primary's documentation?!
I have Cigna HMO in Florida. Any suggestions? Any chance that I could find anyone who would personally look at the facts and see common sense?
Thanks for reading, Karen