I need help with reconst. surgery

Hi, My name is Patti and I had my rny surgery 6/19/06, I have met my surgeons goal last week, I started at 329 and am now 179. I have been denied 2 times for plastics. I am a single mom of a special needs child and work 2 jobs. I prayed for rashes over the summer and never got a one. My breasts are so heavy for my new frame and my back hurts. My pcp has been documenting for the past year about my back and neck pain. I was really considering going to Mexico to Cosmed but NO ONE I know supports that at all. I wrote a 5 page appeal letter with letters from my PCP, Surgeon, OB/GYN and even the trainer at my gym to no avail. How can they ok me to go thru this process but nor let me fini**** up. Uggghhhh! Same story different person right?? Any help, suggestions, info or if you have pasty white pics of tummy and breast rashes that you would like to share with me I will take it!!!LOL Patti