Uncle Fluffy
I have the same insurance, and they (like others I have heard) pull this BS, because they think you're at too high of a risk for complications and they don;t want to pay for that. Listen, ANY surgery at your BMI is going to be riskier, but if you needed a CARDIAC bypass to save your life they wouldn't say "no."
The DS is DESIGNED to treat the high risk, high BMI patients. Since the Sleeve is probably the SAFEST WLS out-there, they start with that. They've been removing partial stomachs (and full stomachs) for decades, and know it has an excellent SAFETY profile. This is why surgeons, like De. Gagner and the group at NY Presbyterian/Cornell/Columbia, and others, started this procedure. They knew it caused people to lose weight, even if they had part of their stomachs removed for other reasons (ulcers, cancer). Then, once you have lost about 100 lbs or so, or about 12-14 months later, they do the second part--the bypass-- and the DS is what most docs do for the second part. It's staged in too parts because it is SAFE.
Also, over the years with the 2-part VSG/DS, many who had just the Sleeve were not wanting or needing the 2nd part. That's why they started looking into it as a Sole, stand-alone procedure. The results show it is comparable to the RNY (and far superior to the Band) after yrs 1,2,and 3. There's some 5 year data showing some wt regain with people who had higher BMI's before surgery. And those, like yourself, may very well need the second part to lose it all. The DS has excellent results, but the second part may not be needed by all who seek it. Many wait and see.
I think the sleeve and DS are better than the RNY because the RNY pouch can stretch so much more. The Sleeve (alone or as part of the DS) makes the stomach out of the LEAST stretchy part of the stomach. Lots of RNYer regain, but the Sleeve doesn't strretch too much. And if it does, it stretches up at the top (they place where the RNY pouch would start).
It's my understanding that Horizon BC/BS HAS approved the Sleeve and the DS on an individual basis. Many BC/BS around the country are starting to, as there is a push to get the "experimental" title removed due to such promising research. Check DS and VSG board for articles to use to fight with. It may be that for the RNY (which really is a drastic surgery) isn't safe, and that's why you were denied. If you submit for the 2-part DS or the Sleeve alone, it is much safer and you may therefore get approved. Although I prefer the DS, and think you'll have better results, if you really wanted the RNY, you could get the Sleeve first to loose enough weight and get the RNY bypass (using the sleeve stomach instead of the pouch) later if needed. That way you'll be less likely to stretch.
I know all this is confusing. You can contact the NJ Commission on Banking and Insurance in Trenton. They have a web site and you can call and ask some questions. Although they are lawyers there, they try not to give legal advice til they receive a complain form. Tell them you need some direction on whether you have a reasonable complaint and see if they can guide you. Remember, whoever you get on the phone may not know the details of WLS.
Good luck and keep us posted. Don't let the *******s get you.
HORIZON BC/BS

Kahlua