how do I....??

is there a place to go on here where I can find other people with my insurance and find out how easy it was to get plastic surgery???

You can do a post on your state's forum to see if there's anyone there who has the same insurance as you do.  Or, if it's a huge company, like Blue Cross/Blue Shield, you might consider posting it on your surgery-specific forum.  I also think that there's a plastic surgery forum here as well that you could post your question on.  When I was working with my insurance approval for my WLS, I posted the same question on several forums because different forums have different people.  That way, I got lots of responses and wisdom. Good luck!