Desperate 20 year old with Medi-Cal, is there even a shred of hope in the world?
I am in tears as I type this. I am in tears alot as of late.
I am 20 years old and on Medi-Cal. I live on my own in Eureka, California (northern). I work full-time at my minimum wage job (and am about to start a second min. wage job in the next week)
I am 5'2 and have a BMI of 54. I have tried every diet under the sun, and have made, many, many lifestyle changes over the years. I have been trying relentlessly for years to lose weight with no progress whatsoever. I also might add that I may have PCOS, which doesn't make this any easier.
I am depressed. I don't mean "oh, I'm sad because I'm fat and nobody likes me." So I do not want to hear snarky comments about my "sob story" or "diet and exercise will make you lose weight." I've tried and tried and tried and tried and it's no use.
I am so close to giving up on everything. It takes all the power in the world to keep me from throwing myself in front of a speeding bus or semi every time I see one. It takes everything to keep me from veering off the road and driving my car off a bridge.
I turn 21 in four months, meaning my Medi-Cal benefits will be stopped and I have to switch over to CMSP. I desperately want Bariatric Surgery, be it gastric bypass or or lap-band. I know the procedures, and I know the risks and I know what I would have to do after to keep myself healthy.
There is no way I can afford this on my own.... Is there anyway in hell Medi-Cal/CMSP would even HELP cover anything? Would a surgeon even touch me unless I went on some damn six month strict diet first just to prove that it didn't do jack?
I just don't know what to do, or even where to begin.
Please. Please help. Any insight would be great. I seriously don't know how much longer I can go on living like this.
Hi Demile,
Please don't give up!!! Never give up ok? Please give them a call to make sure they are still taking your insurance.
Here is a list of surgeons we show that takes Medicaid and Medicare in the state of CA. As we discussed please give them a call. I also included for you some financial information we have as well. Dr. Joseph Niam Address: University of California, Irvine Medical Center UCI Med Center - Division of Gastrointestinal Surgery 101 The City Drive; City Tower, Ste. 850, Rt. 81 Mail Code: 5375 Orange, CA 92868-3298 Telephone: 714-456-8598 Fax: 714-456-7035 Email: [email protected] Philippe Quilici, M.D. 201 South Buena Vista Street Suite 425 Burbank, CA 91505 Phone: (818) 848-8311 Central California Bariatric Surgery, Patrick J. Coates, M.D., F.A.C.S. View Contact Information 1401 Spanos Ct., Ste 224 http://www.bariatricsrus.com Modesto, CA, 95355 Kelly Francis, MD 11160 Warner Ave. Suite 421 Fountain Valley, CA 92708 Phone: (714) 966-2009 Fax: 714-966-22372 Links for financing sites: * o http://www.medicredit.com/ o http://www.p-f-s.com/ o http://www.cogentfinancialgroup.com/ o http://www.capitalonehealthcarefinance.com/ o http://www.citerrafinancial.com/ o http://www.mymedicalfinancing.com o http://www.surgeryloans.com If there is anything else we can do to assist you please let us know. Take care, Kathy ObesityHelp Member Services
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