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Topic: RE: Hello.....anybody home?
Thanks again Teresa
Oh yea..I have been on this journey for a year. I know what is coming my way. I am so sorry you went through so many years of depression. Your son sounds like a jewel!
I know it's a huge life altering decision but I am ready to start my new life.
Oh yea..I have been on this journey for a year. I know what is coming my way. I am so sorry you went through so many years of depression. Your son sounds like a jewel!
I know it's a huge life altering decision but I am ready to start my new life.
Topic: RE: Hello.....anybody home?
Melissa,
20 yrs ago due to cir****tances beyond my control i had 2 quit riding. Was devastating 2 me I continued riding for about a yr learning to jump taking lessons----just not the sameashaving my own horse. I eventually had to quit even being around horses because it would bring on severe depression lasting for many days. My only comfort became food, then my parents died 11 months apart. Once again my only comfort was food i steadily gained wt with my top wt being 299 lbs. I am very small boned and have asthma, I could not walk or even move comfortably. Christmas, 2 yrs ago my son bought me 2 horses for Christmas and then another one the following summer. I had real fears because I was sooooo unbalanced prior to surgery, I bounced along even on my gaited horses like a sack of potatoes, it was not a pretty sight to say the least. With every pound I lose, my confidence grows, my riding improves, and I am happier. Make sure u are ready 2 change because after surgery u cannot change ur mind. I have lost my best friend comfort foods, but have gained my favorite activity. Just b sure this new lifestyle is 4 u because the changes r not small, they r for life!
TeresaR
20 yrs ago due to cir****tances beyond my control i had 2 quit riding. Was devastating 2 me I continued riding for about a yr learning to jump taking lessons----just not the sameashaving my own horse. I eventually had to quit even being around horses because it would bring on severe depression lasting for many days. My only comfort became food, then my parents died 11 months apart. Once again my only comfort was food i steadily gained wt with my top wt being 299 lbs. I am very small boned and have asthma, I could not walk or even move comfortably. Christmas, 2 yrs ago my son bought me 2 horses for Christmas and then another one the following summer. I had real fears because I was sooooo unbalanced prior to surgery, I bounced along even on my gaited horses like a sack of potatoes, it was not a pretty sight to say the least. With every pound I lose, my confidence grows, my riding improves, and I am happier. Make sure u are ready 2 change because after surgery u cannot change ur mind. I have lost my best friend comfort foods, but have gained my favorite activity. Just b sure this new lifestyle is 4 u because the changes r not small, they r for life!
TeresaR
Topic: RE: Hello.....anybody home?
Thanks Teresa....I Love hearing that!
I just got approved for RNY last friday! It's been a journey.
On Nov 22 I will have had my horse for 1 year and only rode him less than 5 times. People think my fear issues have to do with horses but it's my own shattered confidence that has done it. I can't wait to ride again.
I just got approved for RNY last friday! It's been a journey.
On Nov 22 I will have had my horse for 1 year and only rode him less than 5 times. People think my fear issues have to do with horses but it's my own shattered confidence that has done it. I can't wait to ride again.
Topic: RE: Hello.....anybody home?
Being able to ride again is the best thing to happen to me in many years LUV IT!!!!! cant think of any other way to explain it I would do my RNY 20 more times for what it has done 4 my life!!!!!!!!!!!!
TeresaR
TeresaR
Topic: RE: For pre ops who are wondering
My family made me wait 1 month my dr said whenever wounds were totally healed over aslong as the horse was gentle and only walked I had RNY. Check with ur Dr they know what is best
TeresaR
TeresaR
Topic: RE: For pre ops who are wondering
It was about 6 weeks after my RnY that I first got on my horse. Check with your doctor when you can get on with the band.
Eljay
While the weight loss is easier with surgery, the lifestyle is harder.
While the weight loss is easier with surgery, the lifestyle is harder.
Topic: RE: For pre ops who are wondering
Hi. I almost cried when I found this forum. To know that there are people out there like me that feel sorry for their horses and look forward to really being able to ride again not just putt around has really lifted my spirits. I have considered surgery for many years and just could never get all the lose ends tied together, but it looks like this time might be for real. I have my consultation appointment on Nov. 10th and I am really excited. I hope that this time it is for real. I look so forward to riding through an open field and not felling like I am a bowl of jello or having my horse injured because I am really to big to be riding. How long after lap-band can you ride? Looking forward to getting to know some of you. TTYL
Tonette
Tonette
Topic: RE: For pre ops who are wondering
soooo glad to hear that I love riding but am still not centered, it does seem to be improving though. I cant wait to be a good rider again. My horses are looking forward to it also LOL. Of curse do not get to ride often enough for me but am working on trying to get more time for riding. Congrats on your wt loss, sounds as if you are doing great.
Topic: For pre ops who are wondering
yes, the difference between riding before and after weight loss is amazing. Now I'm 65 pounds lighter, I can't believe how much more comfortable I am, and how much more confident I am on my greenish horse. It is absolutely incredible. It's like the riding I remember as a kid IS possible again. Wonderful!
Eljay
While the weight loss is easier with surgery, the lifestyle is harder.
While the weight loss is easier with surgery, the lifestyle is harder.
Topic: RE: A real ride
hi let me no how u r doing. had my RNYon aug 12th, hoping 2 feel better n a few days. Any hints? I have a TW mare, QH mare and big gaited gelding.
Teresa R
Teresa R