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Only_me
on 11/18/07 5:09 pm - San Diego, CA
Topic: RE: I'd like to share my experience

Hello there, I have to say that I truly understand Just how you feel,  I have otosclerosis  also, and how I found out was one day I went to use my telephone to make a phone call and I could not hear a dial tone in the phone.  I thought that my phone had been disconnected  for some reason.  But when my children came home from school and my husband home from work they all used it and thought I was nuts because I had been upset all that day over not being able to call anyone.  Now silly me never thought to put the phone to the other ear until my husband asked me to. it was then I new I had hearing loss.  My ENT told me I had otosclerosis and I did not want to believe him and thought he just wanted to operate on my ear, back then it was just my right ear, Since then I have seen several ENTs and they all say the same.  about 2 years back I had gotton a hearing aid for my right ear the cic hearing aid is small and fits way down in the ear. well that lasted all of 6 months 2200.00 down the drain. back then my hearing loss was moderate loss within that year I started to loose some hearing in the other ear and begain to have some nerve loss in my right ear as well so the sugery would not work for me @ all.  Now today I have severe loss in my right ear with nerve loss as well and in my left ear I have moderate to severe loss also with some nerve loss.   For many years I tried to tell my family about this disease but no one understood me.  Everyone wondered why I was loosing my hearing, Until my birth father who did not raise me. I was talking to his wife and she was telling me her youngest daughter was having sugery on her right ear because she has otoscelosis.  then I knew where it came from.  My Dad blames Himself  sometimes for my deafness but it is not his fault.  For me life is sometime lonely and stressful,  Communication is hard because my family do not know how to communicate with me and refuses to learn sign language.  I Work as a nurse on weekend nights so I do not have to be in the mist of all that confusion is what I call it.   One of my worst fears happened  a few days ago, while working the day shift.  The Doctor was standing across from me giving me verbal orders for a patient, and as much as I read lips I could not read his and I could not hear him speaking, My tinnitus was very loud  the phone ringing  call lights going off. I wanted to cry right then and there.  But there was one nurse our team leader who knew of my loss . She stepped right in and started taking down the order for me .  The Dr was sort of frustrated with me I could see it in his eyes, when it was all done I thanked her so very much. If only she knew how much she helped me that time.  she also mentioned to the Dr that I was HOH and going deaf.  But she also told him I was one of the best nurses they had on the unit.  I can't wait to get my hearing aids , not sure how long they will work for me but for now I need them.  I have already started taking asl which my Doctor  said I should do.  So once again I feel where you coming from.

NoniOhio
on 11/13/07 7:23 am - Xenia, OH
Topic: Feel better signing
I mentioned before that my hearing loss is inherited -  and I may become Deaf one day. I've decided to be proactive and begin to learn sign language now. Its the first time in a long time where I feel like I'm part of a conversation! Based on the fact that hearing aids aren't covered by insurance, and to buy one (note I said ONE) that has the good technology that comes close to hearing prior to hearing loss costs over $5000...well - I think signing is a more economic solution, too.  Just thought I'd share.




 NoniOhio
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on 11/12/07 10:15 am
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NoniOhio
on 8/5/07 1:28 pm - Xenia, OH
Topic: RE: I'd like to share my experience
Kellie, Thank you so much for sharing. Your post touched my heart. I  understand and agree 100% with everything you said! I also notice the days when I don't wear my hearing aid (I teach water aerobics and hearing aids are no****er-proof) - I find that I'm exhausted trying to hear what other people are trying to say. The exhaustion makes me crabby, too.  On the days when I wear my hearing aid - I don't feel as tired by the end of the day. The hearing aid isn't perfect  - but they keep coming up with new and better equipment for people. AND, like you, I've made friends on the internet where we can talk through various forums, instant messaging, ect. Again - thanks!
Kellie_B
on 8/5/07 9:33 am, edited 8/5/07 9:36 am - Louisville, KY
Topic: RE: CAPD and Tinnitus
Silenthand2 Wow I did not know there was a different sign languages! I have a program on the computer but because of my medicines I suffer alot from memory loss so its hard for me to remember all the language. It sounds like what you are talking about is much simpler. I myself never involved myself with the deaf society either because I felt that I would not understand the language. Also I did not feel that your message was negative but it was a help to me. I think sometimes we do come off "sounding" a certain way on message boards though that maybe we don't mean too. I'm sorry the other person felt offended:( Thanks for the info!
Kellie_B
on 8/5/07 7:55 am - Louisville, KY
Topic: RE: I'd like to share my experience
Hello. I too suffer from hearing loss in both ears but unlike you they do not know why. People in the land of hearing have no clue what life is like for a hearing impaired person.  In my life I have noticed that people tend to not include you in conversations or end conversation with you quickly once they realize that you are hearing impaired. They mistakenly assume you are uninteresting and not worth the effort of getting past this obsticale one in which, they only have to deal with for a very short amount of time not realizing that we have to deal with this every hour of every day. While my being hearing impaired may cause someone else to have to speak louder therefore making them uncomfortable, they have no clue how much more this affects me. I truly hate to impose on another person and repeatedly have to ask them to repeat themselves or to speak up. Even if a person says they do not mind speaking up or repeating themselves I sense the frustration in their voices when asked several times to speak up. People also mistakenly believe that just because we cannot hear them we can automatically read their lips, this isn't true of everyone, some people have the gift while others do not. One thing I am so thankful for is the internet. I have made friends on the net that I am happy to be able to share convesation with where I don't have to ask them to repeat themselves.... in this instance I have found a way to overcome hearing loss.
Ronda E.
on 7/12/07 7:00 am - Tustin Ranch, CA
Topic: OH Magazine Issue 3 2007
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NoniOhio
on 6/25/07 2:42 pm - Xenia, OH
Topic: I'd like to share my experience
Hi - I was born with a genetic bone disease that causes hearing loss: otosclerosis. It is the same thing that caused Beethoven to go deaf. My mother and my sister have it. It causes mostly conductive hearing loss - not nerve loss. Otoclerosis causes deafness because the bones in the ear are fused together - unable to move - so sound doesn't get into the inner ear. How it affected me... I was born - able to hear in both ears. On March 1, 1987,  I woke up and found that I was completely deaf in my left ear. Loads of tests were run and this is when the doctors realized that I otosclerosis.  I was able to have surgery to gain some of my hearing back in my left ear, but I also have tintinnitis. Post-op tests show that I am unable to hear high tones (like birds), and am almost deaf to all low tones. In the range of the human voice - I have about 70% of my hearing. I'm told that my hearing in my left ear is called "Moderate to Severe." My right ear has also been tested and I have some hearing loss in that ear - and it's called 'Mild to Moderate." This means I can hear people talk with me when I'm one-on-one in a quiet environment and the person talking to me is speaking in a normal to loud - distinct speaking voice. In noisy environments - I can't understand anyone. Trying to hear during the day causes me to feel VERY tired. I try to read lips - but that only works when people look at me and don't cover their mouths- AND - only one person talks at a time. I went to the Bureau of Vocational Rehabilitation and they determined a hearing aid in my left ear would help me hear people better. It's digital and amplifies human voices while dampening other sounds. It also has different settings for quiet environments and noisy environments. I still can't keep up with conversations - but I do a lot better than without. I am currently in grad school studying to be a Rehab counselor for the severely disabled and plan learn ASL so I can counsel people who are deaf.  Just thought I'd share.
KRWaters
on 6/10/07 2:53 am - Manteca, CA
Topic: RE: Welcome to the Hearing Impaired Forum message board

Hi Peggy, how ya doing? I think I visited you in the hospital, no? I was there seeing someone else.  I am deaf in one ear from the mumps when I was 5.  So I do have one good ear, which is losing hearing now cuz of age according to the hearing doctor.  They have a new hearing aid available for nerve deafness which I have, but it costs $3,500.00 I think it is and I don't have that kind of money.  Oh well, stay well.

Karen

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Tammy Douglas
on 4/29/07 4:05 pm - Los Angeles, CA
Topic: RE: CAPD and Tinnitus
I have hear what you had to say hun. I was sharing what I have learned in educational expereinces as well as in person. I have an Associates degree in in American Sign Language, a BA degree and am working on a master degree. What I have learned is that there is a huge difference between what hearing people call ASL and what DEAf people call ASL. Often the sign version hearing people use and is the most used in public is exact signed english ESL. I think thats great that your husband helps you. As a person who had to learn how to deal with work and school enviorments I found it easier in these settings to use interpreters. I would guide you towards the SHH association as they are hard of hearing people with diverse backgrouds. Not all just DEaf or deaf or hard of hearing. I was attempting to show you the differences in cultural values and swaying you towards those like yourself. ASL Deaf is very different in technical grammar and sentence structure and even those deafened early may never get the full extent. While I was saying that I was offened by your beleif that ASL is one in the same. Stocky the guy who wrote the first ASL dictionary claimed that he observed much more than the sign or handshape of the producer he observed another hidden meanings.  I think you are hostile. I will respect your wishes with no further communications. However it saddens me to think that you are that defensive over such a thing. I wa supporting your ideas of alternative means to access music,TV and things that other people take for granted in daily life. And how I too know how difficult that is.
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