Daily Post--3/30/08

To be honest, i do not care.. lol sorry but when I was heavy they talked and now that I am thinner then most of them , they still talk crap.. Yesterday some of the guys at work told me I needed to stuff my bra now.. I just give them a comeback,, have you tried to stuff a sock in your pants? it might make you a bigger man not to say that your mouth is not big. maybe you need 2 socks !! one for each.. Women are just a mean talking crap.. I do not care!! Funny thing is one the girls here had the same surgery and says crap about how I took the easy way out.. Whos the liar? and game player?

I actually always was in the "in" crowd. And I was always the one thinking of things to do to my friends on April Fool's Day. Which means I'd better get to work, since I have nothing planned yet!

Honestly, I don't think I ever really thought that people were talking behind my back about my size. That's not to say that I didn't feel self-conscious and embarrassed about my size around others, but I think it was self-imposed. I try not to gossip, don't like it, and pay no attention to others who may take part in it.

Physically I know that I am smaller but I still do not feel smaller. I still feel like people probably say things about me behind my back. I try to look at it like this, if they are talking about me then they are leaving some other poor soul alone, LOL! I try not to worry about it to much but it does still bother me. I don't have many friends here. We just moved here a little over a year ago and I still have issues making myself get out there. I hope it gets better one day! Rhonda

My son told me the other day I was trying to be a preppy mom. Hello.....I am only 37 and when did shopping at American Eagle have an age limit? I feel more accepted and more approachable. I am happy.

Well Ive never cared about being in any crowd or chiche im just me. but I do feel better about myslef and care less about what others thing.

I guess I still have a problem with being paranoid because when people are whispering I still think they are saying nasty things about me. I can't say I have ever been targeted as an april fools day joke though. Sally

I feel like I fit in now. In fact, one of my co-workers-who has never really shown an interest in me at all, now wants us to go shopping together, since we are now the same size!

Once I got into my 30's I decided that I did not care if people were talking about me. I decided that if they were happy talking about me, then at least I was making them happy. I have always been one to be in on the jokes at work and stuff, both on the giving and receiving end, so do not worry about April Fools at all. Gayle

I never really thought about it before and definitely not now...........people will always find something about you to talk about if you are over weight, underweight or the perfect weight...I just don't pay them any mind one way or the other.