Daily Post---3/4/08

Let's just put it this way. My husband's a happy man. I really enjoy myself now too. I think it's all about the self esteem issue. Carla

Personally it was nonexisitant there for awhile but I am starting to get it back but still I am so tired I don't really make an effort as much as I should. Take care! Kellie

It's a little better but I had no drive before WLS and now that I'm post surgery it seems to be slowly coming back but I don't feel my drive is where it should be. I don't know if I should see someone about it or not?

Mine hasn't really changed much...maybe a little decrease. I'd say mine is pretty moderate. Wouldn't mind if it were increased a bit.

I was fine before surgery and it hasn't changed. I hope it doesn't. I'm still self-consious ~ before, with the weight ~ now, with the skin thing, but the drive is the same. Jules

What is a sex drive?????????? What is a relationship??????????? Have been divorced since 2004 so guess I don't remember what either one is......... Sally

What's that??? I have been divorced since 1984 and not in a relationship for 10 years. Sure would like to find out.... but yuk!!! all this saggy, baggy stuff hanging around. I was embarrassed to be seen naked when I was in my 40's now in my 60's.. NO WAY!! Alice

Currently mine is next to non existent - but since WLS I've had a total hysterectomy - after my weight loss fibroid tumors were found - couldn't find them before because of my obesity - so my husband is not too happy of a camper these days - i have some other issues that I am working with my OB/GYN on so hopefully I will get my libido back on track

Well, I am glad to see that I am not the only one who does not want it all.. lol.. to me its a bother,, and why bother for a few seconds to get a mess.. sorry.. My B/f wants it allllllllll the time, more then ever.. and he thinks its him the reason I have n drive.. But I am going thru the change and my doctor gave me prozac instead of hormones, and no hot flashes at least.. but the sex drive took a long drive by itself... I think it drove it self to the north pole.. lol.. This is one post I wll show to my b/f so he can see I am not the only one... and its not HIM...

My hubbys a long haul truck driver and I see him maybe ever 3 months. There really hasn't been any changes I am fine w/out. Always have been!