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I have been with my partner for about 9 years . I love her with all of my heart, but lately she has really been getting on my nerves . I am in the process of filing an appeal with the insurance commissioner . She know that I am very through when it comes to doing that kinda of stuff , i have to do a lot of research , she bought me a $3000.00 computer for christmas she also did my office in the safari theme that i wanted , she calls it my get away room , the problem is that she is always whining when ever I come into my room , she states that i am not spending enough time with her that is not true. I had every intentions of coming home on fri opening my mail, checking my email messages , then I would spend the rest of the evening with her watching movies and eating pizza , but the whole time i was checking my emails she was saying , come on let snuggle , le****ch a movie , I said okay baby , give me one minute. So she keeps this up , then when I'm dont she has put me in a funk. Do you think I am being a meanie or should she give me some space some times?

she should totally give you your space sometimes. i've been on both sides of a story like this. while yes it is fun to be around your girl, you have to have time to yourself. she should understand that...doesn't she like time to her self as well? try talking to her. let her know that yes you do want to spend time with her, but there are times that you need to do a few things and then you can hang out, snuggle, and watch movies hope this helps!!!! ~jen