Hello!!! Cant I get some words of wisdom!

I'm usually am a lurker .but I need help My friend broke up with me. I don't know the hold story on why cause she want go into detail but I know she is seen someone else. My problem I have a very hard time excepting that. And moving on. And I guess it don't help we still live together. But I need help! I know it has a lot to do with me having Surgery. And she keep saying she's not happy!

Renee, I'm sorry I don't have any words of wisdom except to say that I've been there-having someone break up with me and we still had to live together for awhile. One thing that might help is if the two of you could see a "marriage counselor" to help you break up in as positive way as possible (or get back together). That's what we did and it helped tremendously.

I was with someone for 16 years. We broke up after 13. I know how hard it can be. Renee, it might feel like the world is crashing in on you right now but you will survive and thrive. Just spend time with positive people. Go be active with something else (ie volunteering at children's hospital, exercising, dance class, whatever). I will hold a good thought for you. A

Here's a big hug for you Renee! Make sure you expand your circle of friends. Try to find support from other weight loss patients in your area. I wish there was something to take the pain of a broken heart away, I've been there a couple of times myself. Hugs! Steve