OK HAVE TO VENT HERE LIL

Hey everyon ei havent posted in a while dont some people get the fact that some people (bi people like myself) just like both. Why is it so hard to understand i cant get it. i have been in love with a man and a women if i could still change some if my past i would be happy right now with that women. i was judged being fat and that pissed me off but come on now lets be realistic im 29 single no children (alone some people find that hard to believe) i can thelp the fact that i like both... i want children and a family when i find the right one to me honestly it doesnt matter if its a man or women does anyone else feel this way or am i just screwd up in the head need opions..


above is 2 monthe before sug

You are not screwed up in the head silly...lol I don't blame you for wanting a family. I think we all do sometime in our lives. I'm like you, i like both and I have been with both. I have been in a relationship with a man for almost 6 years, but...the one that I let slip through my fingers is a woman. If i could go back and change things, I would. But I can't and I just have to be grateful that her and I are still friends.

Hon, don't let others opinions of you get you down. I believe when others have negative opinions of someone, they are either jealous or they don't know the whole story. What matters is that YOU are Happy with who YOU are.......big, skinny, or with a man or a woman. It's your life not anyone Else's. And by the way.....you look fabulous darling...lol I love your pics! Good for you!!

awww why arent you close i need a hug lolol ty mamma im just sitting here like are u kidding me my roomate (exbf) moved on already sexually and im still hurt but it was bound to happen we dont really see each other lately and thats easier for me we dont hang out nothign that part sucks but i think its for the best i jus wana be happy and im not going to settle

ty

There ya go hon...don't settle ever. You deserve much more than that. You'll be fine. You are smart, beautiful, and on your way to a new you, and once you find that someone special, hang on tight and enjoy the ride.....lol

If we lived closer, I would give you a hug for sure!!! *HUGS*

You are not screwed up!   You are on a weightloss journey and a journey for the "YOU"

Please take the time to honor "YOU" as well as your weightloss and the rest will fall into place!!

ty i appreciate that im just trying to find me ive been so emotional and stuff for like 4 months even before my bf and i broke up... im just taking day by day and what helps me is making sure i take my vits and ge****er in i mean im lonely but thats what it is

You know about the Kinsey scale right? Well, you are smack dab in the middle- you're bi and so are many other folks. It doesn't make you better or worse, it's just who you are. You're not screwed in the head, it's just that people don't understand.

I tried really hard to be straight, but I'm not, I'm gay- it's just who I am. You are attracted to both genders...it's just who you are.

And someday you'll meet the right person and you'll start your family with them, and you'll forget all about these head-games.

Hang in there girlie!

ty mamma i appreciate that im really just trying to find me .....

im trying lol


btw you look awesome :)

Awww thanks!

yeah, what Danni said. Sounds like you are smack dab in the middle of the 'ol Kinsey scale..