Another New Guy

mark1963
on 6/5/10 8:25 am - Fairfax (Marin County), CA
I am new to OH and was very happy to see the GLBT forum.  It is great to have support from those *****ally understand.

I have been heavy all of my life and always thought that my weight kept me from from finding a partner.  I was keeping me "safe" from rejection I thought, but it was at a great cost.  I know that WLS is not a fix-all.  My mind is not going to be surgically altered, just my stomach.  So I know that I have a lot of growth a head of me. 

I live in the San Francisco Bay Area and wonder if anyone knows of support groups (especially GLBT) for WLS in the area?

Thanks!

Mark

HagerstownMan
on 6/6/10 12:08 am - Hagerstown, MD
 Welcome to the forum!  There is a great wealth of knowledge here from those who have gone before you :)  If you have any questions about the journey, please feel free to ask!  Like you, my mind is something that is taking a long time to catch up to the rest of me.  I've often said that I wish they operated on my brain while they operated on my stomach LOL

Welcome again!
    
mark1963
on 6/6/10 10:39 pm - Fairfax (Marin County), CA
Thanks for the welcome, HTMan.  It looks like to me that you have had great success with weight loss.  That is so great.  I am very happy for you.  I agree with what you said about our minds.  I believe that if I could really fix my mind, I probably wouldn't need WLS.  I will be back to the GLBT forum. 

Mark

Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.

 
       
sfnativewm
on 6/6/10 8:44 am
Hi Mark!  Welcome.!  I believe you are with Kaiser Richmond and they have the classes and support groups for all people.  I am with kaiser ssf and they too have a variety of classes.  I don't really know of GLBT specific bay area classes but it would be great if they were around.

Good luck and much success to you!~Ann

~Ann~
Band removed and feeling alive with energy!

mark1963
on 6/6/10 10:34 pm - Fairfax (Marin County), CA
Hello Ann.  Thanks for your reply.  Yes, I am at Richmond Kaiser and I am going to their support group which is only twice a month.  I feel like I need more support and am so excited about OH!  I need to check out which classes are available at Kaiser and I will do that this week. Thank youi for the reminder.  I have my first official weigh-in since starting the process.  Wish me luck (I think I will need it).

Take care,
Mark

Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.

 
       
InkdSpEdTchr
on 6/7/10 2:14 am
Hi and Welcome!

I went to Kaiser SSF and they have support groups too!

Best of Luck on your journey!!

:Danni  >>>AIDS/LifeCycle 10 & 11 Finisher: 545miles on the bike in 7 days <<<
HW390/SW340/CW 208/GW170
                   
  

             
  

ohbearly
on 6/7/10 2:59 am - Mogadore, OH
Revision on 07/31/13
Welcome, Mark! This is a great forum of great people. I think you will find it a good resource. Feel free to post any thoughts or questions. People are eager to help other folks out. Best of luck on your journey! -- Tom from Ohio

Follow my journey to a happy, healthy, active life at TomBilcze.com 

Lisa_67
on 6/7/10 3:54 am - Ravenna, OH
Hi Mark....Welcome
      starting weight...307 Surgery weight..274 Onederland...198 (3/6/10)
 I lost 33 pounds before surgery. My new life has finally began

    
ohbearly
on 6/7/10 12:58 pm - Mogadore, OH
Revision on 07/31/13
Lisa, You look lovelier each time I see you. I hope you are coming to the picnic Saturday. I have a surprise for you! -- Tom

Follow my journey to a happy, healthy, active life at TomBilcze.com 

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