Sexual Orientation ( a must read)

OlgaArnold
on 1/6/10 4:18 am - Greenville, SC

*** I posted this in the BAF as well but i thought it would be interesting what you all think!


Oh no this heffa didnt just ask me if I was gay because I was big. She then tells me that must people who are big end up being gay because they cant find people of the other sex to be with them. She asked me if I ever go to the gay,lesbian and transgender forum on here she said thats why they made the forum cause so many plus size people like the same sex. 

 

How do yo feel about that? This isnt the first time I heard this either!

                

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Vickie A.
on 1/6/10 5:04 am
Well obviously she doesn't know many people that are gay. For myself I have known since I was in 1st grade that I was attracted to women and pretty damn sure it had nothing to do with my weight.  I think for most we are attracted to the same sex because it is what it is......  hopefully she can educate herself. 

        
Lisa_67
on 1/6/10 5:32 am - Ravenna, OH
Oh wow....out of the mouths of narrow minded uneducated people!

Like Vickie said, I knew early on that I was attracted to both male and females. I knew at about 14 years old and since then I have been in relationships with both. I have been skinny and I have been fat....either way, the relationships had nothing to do with my weight or my size.

This persons thinking makes me giggle....it's so absurd that it's funny..
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Just Brooke
on 1/6/10 6:52 am
She sounds like she's missing a brain cell or 2.

At my heaviest weight I was married .........to a man! Her logic is RIDICULOUS!

(deactivated member)
on 1/6/10 12:36 pm - London, Canada
some one asked me that once, and i just said, are u hetero because your ugly? meh some ppl are slow.
goalechica
on 1/6/10 1:43 pm - Waldorf, MD
Hold on...someone from the boards said this?

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EllenFan
on 1/7/10 2:38 am, edited 1/7/10 2:48 am - Canada
 How ludicrous!  Carrying extra weight does not a homosexual make!  Think I'm going to coin that phrase ;)  I've gone from skinny to overweight and back to skinny again, and regardless of what the scale read, I am still emotionally and physically attracted to women...  

I hate the stereotype out there that categorizes all lesbians as big ugly masculine looking heavy weights who dress in men's clothing and act so butch they could never attract a man.   Many of us don't fit that description at all (myself included).  I am a woman who fully embraces my femininity and I don't look, act or dress like a man at all.    This whole misconception just rattles my cage big time!  Heck! Up until a few years ago, I was only with a man, never with a woman.  Sorry for the rant....  

Education is key....

EF
Kathy W.
on 1/15/10 1:25 pm - Enfield, CT
RNY on 01/15/08 with
HEY! I resemble that remark about being butch!

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

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yes4Jess
on 1/7/10 8:11 am - somewhere, MI
That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard actually... lol  MOST fat women are unhappily married to fat men actually...from what I've seen. LOL  But in general of course weight has NOTHING to do with sexual orientation.
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Altheia
on 1/7/10 9:41 am - New Bedford, MA
Being overweight does not make you Gay! That is just stupid!
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