how do you know if you are bisexual

Dear forum
This the first time i am posting something on here. But i have a problem that I cant go to family members friends. Not even my bf can no. I have been straight most of my life. I have always loved men.However lately I have been finding myself very attracted to women. I dont know if it is a phase and it will pass or if i am bisexual. I want to try being intimate with a women.Because it's a fansty that i have. But I do not know any lesbains here in danville va.And I cant just approach some one and say hey are you bi or gay.that would be offensive. How do  i go about fixing this problm?

Hi!!! Are there any gay clubs/bars you can go check out in the area? That would be a good atmosphere for you to start out with..

Not no where around here. I live in a real small whole in the wall town.We do not have gay or lesbain bars. You can sometimes tell what's what here but then sometimes you cant. Anyway. I am going to try.thanks for the advice.

Drive down to Greensboro, NC.

hey how do you know about greensboro? Are you originally from va?

My wife's parents live in Danville.

o.k. boy it's a small world.SO you knw what i mean that danville is a dead town. Does your wife still have friends that are lesbains here? How often do you all visit here?

Her family is actually from Dallas, Texas.  Her parents moved to Danville about 8 years ago.  I've been there once.  It is not exactly a happening place. 

yes you are right.danville has no action what so ever. No good clubs.We have a couple of places but there like whole in the type stuff.You can dress any kind of way to in. if  you know what i mean. I wonder way they moved from big old texas to small boring as danville va.Anyway hope you have a good weekend.

I think most women tend to admire other women. If you are attracted to women,how about talking to the women who are attracting you. I think friendship first is a wonderful thing. If a woman is gay or bi,she will let you know.