Some pics of me and my blind date on Sat.

Richbehr
on 3/15/09 10:45 pm - North Haven, CT
RNY on 03/24/08 with
About 2 weeks ago Paul from here, wanted to fix me up with a friend of his, so one night while Tony was over his house he called me, and Tony and I chatted a bit and exchanged phone numbers. Tony and I continued to talk daily for the last 2 weeks. Well last night we met. Paul and his partner had us both over for dinner so we could finally meet. Tony is such a sweet caring guy. I was'nt disappointed. He was really interested and concerned in hearing about my various health/diet requirements. I told him about the nausea, and my 4 hours of dry heaves that goes along with it. He said he will be in the bathroom holding my hand while I puke!!!! And that he will not let me be alone when I am not feeling well. I think I'll keep him. After dinner we went to a diner for coffee.  We both felt there was something between us and we will take it slow. Will I/can I ever feel the same for him as I did for Alan? I don't know, but he is part of the healing process and I am fond of him and do care about him. Now for some info on Tony: He is 44(45 in May 6-same as my grandmother), he is 1/2 Polish and 1/2 Italian and  is an accountant with a masters degree and has his own condo with a cat.  He is a music fanatic with over a thousand cd's. He has'nt been in a relationship for 2 years and in that he was used. Thank you Paul for taking the pictures!
This is Tony, aint he cute????
DSCI0594.jpg picture by Rich1960
Some shots of us together last night,
DSCI0597.jpg picture by Rich1960
I love this shot,
DSCI0598.jpg picture by Rich1960
Awwwww, I think he likes me,
DSCI0595.jpg picture by Rich1960

 
"Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave. Our birth is nothing but our death begun."

Just Brooke
on 3/15/09 10:56 pm
Awww..you look great together! I hope this works out for you
    
sfnativewm
on 3/15/09 11:52 pm
Great pictures!!  Enjoy!  I see a wonderful aura around you both!

~Ann~
Band removed and feeling alive with energy!

mst42
on 3/16/09 12:27 am - Ithaca, NY
Very cute! 
wlscand09
on 3/16/09 12:40 am - Tickfaw, LA
 Wowww go ahead !!! 
LadyRaven
on 3/16/09 1:11 am - Oakland, CA
Tony gets my "YES" vote. He has really intelligent and kind eyes and a sweet open smile. His whole energy in the pictures is open and unassuming. I hope this continues to evolve well for you. We all deserve good lovin'!

  "When patterns are broken, new worlds emerge." -Tuli Kupferberg

 

jmacon1966
on 3/16/09 2:35 am - Greensboro, NC
You look cute together!  I hope things go well,  Iknow the last week havew been hard for you. Where a\has Paul been have not seen him on line in awhile
 
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ohbearly
on 3/16/09 2:44 am - Mogadore, OH
Revision on 07/31/13
Rich sweetie... I am glad you are moving on. You are a great guy and have come so far. Thanks to Paul for thinking of you. It's good to make in-person contact to someone on the board and have a good experience. I hope things work out for you. Now, you can bring him to our wedding in September! -- Tom

Follow my journey to a happy, healthy, active life at TomBilcze.com 

twincitiesbear
on 3/16/09 9:21 am - Burnsville, MN
You guys look sweet together.  Ahhh, new love!  Let it flow and feel natural.  It is the best way.  Congrats to you!  Hugs!
Michael
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409/383/223/225


lesbianvoice
on 3/17/09 9:53 am
I am so happy for you! take it slow, and at this point it doesn't matter whether he will be an "Alan" to you.. Right now he is a Tony, which for the moment is better, right?
I have found a new way of life that has kept me at Goal since 2008.. And keeping it that way!
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