So I just got back from a date, and the only thing I can think of now is that is 2 hours of my life gone forever LOL.  But seriously, he was very cute, but unfortunately not interesting at all.  He's pre-med, and the only things he wanted to talk about was medicine and lacrosse.  Now I have never been interested in medicine really, and have no clue what lacrosse is other than i think it's kinda like football or soccer with sticks? 

Anyways, there wont be a second date and I am home already, where I plan to curl up with a good book that will not bore me and try to forget about tonight.  It wasnt the worst date, it was just not great.   Sorry for the mini rant, just had to tell somebody.   Maybe eventually I will find the guy that doesnt bore me, and can tolerate me    I can dream, right???

i'm so right there with you...thats why I choose to have not strings attached sex..much more satisfying, less chatter. LOL

I did that once with a guy I was friends with. He's next to me in my avitar. LOL We decided we loved each other and didn't want to be apart. That was the end of Jan/ beginning of Feb, we were married June 22nd of that year.

Don't get me wrong..I'm not a trampy little thing..but I made a decision not to enter into a relationship for the first year after my surgery. I need to focus on myself, I don't need diversions and I certainly don't need heartache...

You know, I totally respect and agree with that, as it makes a lot of sense.  I got out of a 3 year relationship a week before my surgery, so really I should stay single for a while anyway.  But also, I am just getting to know myself, because the "real" me was hidden for so long that now I feel like I am finally becoming myself.  And devoting a bunch of time and energy to another person just takes away from the focus on myself.  At this time I think I need to be selfish, and think of me for once.

LOL Love the trampy litle thing. I never pictured you out with a different woman each weekend. More of a friends with bennies. I totally hear you about waiting. I would have too if I wasn't already married.

Failed relationships have always thrown me into deep despair..I hate that. I don't want anything to throw me off trac****il I'm solidly on track. No emotional bull**** is welcome in my life at all right now.

I hear ya on that one. It's rough. This past year has been a real rollercoaster for the hubby and I.

Miracles do happen! I found a guy that doesn't bore me and tolerates me. Trust me, I am a handful and need someone with TONE of patience.

I need somebody with lots of patience too!  does he have a brother?