What do y'all think

hey people...I have a friend  sean

http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/bldwshd/

and he is a great inspiration to the WLS community...but anyway...the other day..he heard someone refer to him a a "Cute Little Bottom Boy" and all of a sudden he is in a tissy....that someone automatically assumes that he is a bottom...

I told him that being a bottom was not a bad thing.. and that I though he was an adorable bottom...well anyway he was just twittering...(his wrists are a mess) so any way...what I need to know...

So you think it's bad to be a bottom....or have someone call you a bottom...hell the world is not made of just tops...

Sean loves baseball...and I told him to just think of one of his favorite expressions...."Batter UP!!!!"

Did I do the right thing??

(I'm gonna be so dead over this ) evil grins

Well I think there's negative stigma around the word BOTTOM......just like there's a stigma around the word SLAVE or BOY.....I think that will always be the case........I love the pitcher/catcher references to preferred positions myself.  In the long run you gotta work as a team to real that climactic goal LOL

Brother AARON,,,,you are so right...I think people relate bottom to being passive or fem or nelly...which is just not the case..but Sean is "really straight"   riiiighhhhhttttt!!! and I love to "poke" fun at him...just becuase he like likes to tell women how to dress and cut their hair...hmmmmm..I tell him he is tripping on the dark side...

(he will now answer to the name Shawndella)

so when are you coming up next?  I been doing some pitching lately ;)

last night as a matter of fact...I need to get up to see y'all...why don;t you come to LUEY...ok phone...will chat back in a min

I would love to come to LUEY........I just haven't got the time or the $$$ I just got my mortgage package in the mail........

hi well coming from a total bottom who is always assumed to be atop ! (this is aproblem)i wouldnt mind and am proud to be a bottom my problem is im atotal bottom and can not find atotal top - so i really dont mind you could even call me your bottom ***** ! just love to please my honey if i had one lol!  much love paul

hey brother...now tell me you are not a lazy bottom...there is nothing worse than a lazy bottom, that just digs their face in a pillow and does not move or make a sound...you gotta at least gunt from time to time....(giggle)

oh no once im comfy with him i like to make sure hes getting a work out along with me lol! just waiting to drop these pounds to find that total top man lol! 

I am attracted to certain people as a bottom and to certain people as a top.