How do I....

kcbelles
on 12/9/08 11:38 pm, edited 12/9/08 11:40 pm - Bellevue, WA

convince my honey I'm not going to leave her? She's so frightened lately that now that I'm "thin and beautiful," that I'm going to up and leave her for a younger model. She's even dreaming about it and it's making her frantic. I try to say all the right words and show her how much I still love her, but I don't think she's believing me. And the funny thing is I'm not what society considers as beautiful (my head's on right - I know I am and I feel beautiful, but I have nothing on Angelina Jolie  lol)

So what do I do? I hate to see her driving herself nuts over something that isn't going to happen?

 
Sharyn S.
on 12/9/08 11:58 pm - Bastrop, TX
RNY on 08/19/04 with

That's a hard one.  Action speaks louder than words.  So, give her lots of action???

Sharyn, RN

RIP, MOM ~ 5/31/1944 - 5/11/2010
RIP, DADDY ~ 9/2/1934 - 1/25/2012

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on 12/10/08 12:00 am - Hagerstown, MD
LOL!  I like that answer!!!!!!
Sharyn S.
on 12/10/08 12:04 am - Bastrop, TX
RNY on 08/19/04 with

Hey, I know it's what would work for me, LOL.

Sharyn, RN

RIP, MOM ~ 5/31/1944 - 5/11/2010
RIP, DADDY ~ 9/2/1934 - 1/25/2012

kcbelles
on 12/10/08 1:21 am - Bellevue, WA
I love that answer, too!   LOL  Very good idea....
 
Sommer
on 12/10/08 8:29 am - Charlotte, NC
LOL..I am with the give her action thing!

I think it may pass.  My wife has the same issues.  Well, she had them for about two weeks.

~watch me grow... while I shrink~

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Kathy W.
on 12/10/08 12:24 am - Enfield, CT
RNY on 01/15/08 with
I had the same problem with the hubby! I eventually told him that he loved me for me and that if I left him how would I know the new person loved me for me and not my new looks? That's one reason I am glad I am married! How would I know if they loved me for me? I look great now but I still have the esteem issues!

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

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Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

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