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Boards Title Categories ... I decided I would say "hey!".... I have recently become more active on the boards. Randomly finding myself drawn to posts and almost compelled to respond to some. I guess I'll stick around for a while. So... "hi!", I look forward to getting to know some of you. Cheers and Healthier Days Ahead! -Betty

Welcome! Regardless of which "board title category" you land in, I hope you'll feel free to vist and post often.

Welcome to the board! We greet you warmly! Connie

thanks for the siggy last night (and no y'all, lols, i don't mean this kind of siggy )

Welcome sweetie.

Thanks for the welcome.... It's appreciated. Here's my short story... I'm 36, Married (to a man) and I have a lovely 18 month old little girl named Piper. I have had LONG TERM relationships with both women and men in my lifetime, ... I believe people fall in love with who they fall in love with and that "the mechanics" or "plumbing" are secondary ... My husband is 100% straight but hasn't stopped me from enjoying myself. No, he doesn't participate and NO, he doesn'****CH. He... trusts me and I am very honest with all my partners about my commitment to my husband and my child. I have been seeing a woman for 2 years.... she is also married and her husband has the same kind of mind set as mine. We go out together (her and her husband and me and mine) and we also go out together. Not only is she smokin' hot but she's fun, smart, and she makes me laugh. It works. I know this is NOT what some (most) of you would choose but it works for us... We don't have jealousy issues ... we had some kinks (no pun intended) in the beginning but they've been resolved and we are all very happy with the arrangement... We were not LOOKING for this. I met her at a bar and we started hanging out... She told me her and her husband had an open relationship... or that he opened it for her (like mine did) and that she was attracted to me... it was a new venture for me but I'm so glad I took a chance... she's like my bestest girl friend and our husbands like each other ... it's beneficial for everyone. The boys never have to go see "wicked" and we never have to go to "Stiller" STEELER games... all of our needs are being met and nobody is cheating or getting hurt. We all have A LOT of friends in the GLB community and I hope to add a few of you to the list... So, that's my story... I know my choices aren't for everyone but they work for us. So here I am... Cheers and Novella's! -Betty

As they say on Cape Cod: "What evah floats your boat!"

Thanks for sharing your story. I don't judge anyone by the choices they make, as long as it's not harmful to anyone. If it works for you, go for it. I look forward to sharing your journey with you. Rachelle

Hi Betty! Welcome to the board! I'm fairly new to here myself so far everyone's been great here! Aaron

Hi Betty and Welcome!!! Good Luck on your journey as well!