Told DH it was time.

This is too weird. LOL. I finally told my husband this weekend that I can't stop thinking about what it would be like to be intimate with another woman and that's it's time I ACT on it, and then this morning I read on my surgery board an invatation to this board. I guess what I'm looking for is a safe place to express my feelings about my curiosity, get some advice from those who have been there, and to know I'm not alone or a freak. Or at least not that much of one. LOL. For the record, DH is fine with it. I do hangout on the sex board.....and I love them...but I feel like I need a place that understands. I don't just feel sexually attracted to women, but also a little emotionally attracted. But at the same time....I love men too. Is it supposed to be this confusing? xox Tammy

You will have confusion at times. However, I will tell you this. IF you are seriously interested in getting involved with another woman, be prepared. The emotional ties between 2 women are FAR beyond what you can imagine with a man. You are not alone, there are many women that have these feelings, and to be frank, I believe it is quite normal. Just know and understand before taking that step that it could potentially cause waves in your current relationship. Good luck and welcome to the board! We will all be here to support you! ~Peace, Laurie

Hi Tammy, Welcome to the GLBT board. I read your post on the Sex board, and you got alot of good advice there. To be honest, it didn't really sound like you were interested in a 3some with your hubby. Reading a little more deeply into your words, there is something a little more there (within you) than just getting together to screw some girl out of "natural" curiosity. Since you are married, I'm worried about you meeting a girl, and falling for her (and she for you as well). Your marriage would then suffer. Obviously. I'm thinking you should talk to a professional a few times. Someone who is sensitive to GLBT issues. There are so many thoughts going on in my head regarding this, I think I'll respond (this time), with just these few. Besides, I'm at work, and a little distracted to really give this my "all". And you deserve to have a response to this post without distraction. Feel free to PM me (regarding this) as well. Take care. -julie

I think sexuality is very confusing at times. This is definitely a safe place to talk about your feelings and ask questions. There is a great group of people on this board and we are all here to support you. Rachelle