No excuses

Hi All, I have only posted here once before and am slightly reluctant but want honest feedback. Even if it is harsh. I went out with my sister-in-law and a friend. We had a few and well I ended up hookinh up with a lady there. Whom i had met prior to this evening. Which I would have done without drinking. Now I would normally not be too concerned my husband is totally ok with my sexuality but his sister didn't know. She asked a few times that evening what's with that but I blew her off and now she expects some sort of answer this was week ago. Do I owe her answer? Do I have to explain that it is what it is or do I just let her believe it was just the alcohol? Best Regards Maxine

Hey Maxine, You have to do what you feel is right, but i think that being honest with you is the most important thing. And if you let her believe that it was just the booze how would you feel? Personally, I don't think you owe her anything, you are an adult and you are free to do as you please, but seeing as she is family that may not be as easy as it sounds. What does your husband think about the situation? Perhaps he could be of some help. Best of luck. ~Lori

I guess honestly I feel like I am cheating myself of just being me. But you always have the fear of judgment from those who matter. He matters and when I told him he said so she should mind her own business. Thanks for your input

Frankly I agree with him...lol but you gotta do what you gotta do. Go with your gut Maxine, and come back anytime. ~Lori

You do not owe her an answer, but you need to tell her something to get her off your back. Maybe next time she asks you could ask her, "What do you think it meant?" or something.