MTV

I was watching MTV the other day and they had some show on about people that were proud to be fat!! One of the guys there Weighed 500lbs and was a gay chub. There was a guy on there that was pretty muscular that was totally into the Superchubs/Gainers. What's funny is that the muscular guy live in Los Angeles and once I responded to an ad of his... I didn't get a response and now I know why..... He REALLY is into bigger guys!!! lol I wanted to know if anyone else has had the experience of meeting someone that you were just too small for....lol

Actually...yes! Believe it or not, even females can run into this. This was quite a while ago...around 1990. I weighed about 240, which was my usual weight as an adult. was dating a girl that wanted me to gain 50 lbs. I couldn't believe it. She said the more rolls the better. All I could think was that if I stayed with her, I'd be so fat I couldn't get around. No thanks! Oh well, that was then, this is now. My Chris loves me no matter what weight I am. Rachelle

That's Great that you found someone!! It's kinda funny for people to think you are just too skinny...lol.... I never opened myself up to the idea that I could ever have a real relationship with a chaser.... I wan't to be normal and have normal guys be attracted to me... not just guys with a fetish... So when a chaser wanted a relationship with me I never took it seriously, we would just mess around but I would break things off before it started to feel like a relationship. I don't want to be in a relationship where I am encouraged to be unhealthy and feel like sh*t.

Oh yeah...me and Chris have been together for 16 years now. She always liked girls with a little meat on them...but I wouldn't call her a chaser. The chasers kind of creep me out a bit. I felt that one wanted to keep her girls fat so no one else would want them...sick thinking, right? Rachelle

Definitely Sick. I have heard of Parent's doing that to their kids. Just making them so big that they couldn't leave the house because they were afraid of being alone! Those people really need psychological treatment.

OMG..I never heard parents doing that. Now that's just downright abuse!

I met my partner Tony a few years after I'd lost a lot of weight in my senior year in college. Back then, I guess that I was still just a bit heavy, maybe on the low side of an overweight BMI. Since then, he's seen me yo-yo all over the place, though I always managed to lose a bit less and gain a bit more than the previous time, over and over again over the past 29 years. He's not a chaser, but he is very understanding, with infinite patience! /Steve

Wow..You guys have been together for 29 years!! That's Great!!! It's so good to hear about people that still Love each other after so long. Congratulations on keeping a relationship working!!

29 years this coming March 1. /Steve

Whoa, congrats on 29 years!!