My first Blog.

I just finished writing my first blog. It is written in a much better format than my story. I am not looking for sympathy but I do want for people to connect with and I believe that it is something that might help to better understand our own feelings about being overweight. It is something that I am sure of that most people feel and it is kind of long so if you want to read it just go to my profile and take a look. Good Luck Everyone....

you know some of us ...would love to "connect" with you...lol

Hi Kenny self esteem is built on more than looks....I do not want you to think a change in your looks is going to instantly build your self esteem. You need to work on replacing the negative thoughts...and reframing the way you percieve the world...Therapy will help....I know this firsthand ..struggled with this problem..and I have lost the weight and looked great...but STILL had no self esteem...I still struggle with it but not as much. I have accepted that I need to put myself first at times and do not have to DO everything myself....I struggled with ACCEPTING help...I had to go through a very dark and difficult period...it was the worst most painful time in my life...but I came out a calmer and more accepting person..with higher self esteem...I am a better person now