Sad News . . seems to be going around

My mother has passed away. My wife Francesca and I are back from her funeral. While the funeral was a wonderful celebration of her life, I'm finding myself quite sad. I've been feeling her love around me in a hundred different little ways. I'm fine until I'm not fine, then I'm really not fine until I'm fine again. My mother lost her battle with diabetes type 2 related to her super morbid obesity. She was 5'1" and 300 lbs at her death. She was in the hospital with a cellulitius and became septic. The death was quite sudden. Her heart simply stopped, and they were unable to get it restarted. I'm striving dilligently to maintain - it is a worthy struggle. It truly is life or death. I've been given an opportunity to save my own life, and I'm trying to seize this opportunity with both hands. Depression-wise, I'm trying hard to keep fighting the good fight, and not let my current sadness bring me all the way down. Sending love to all my GLBT friends, and all those who struggle with obesity, ~Lara

Hi Lara. I'm so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I know it's always a difficult time when we lose a loved one. We are all here to support you.

Dear Lara, I am so very sorry for your loss. I do understand. Today is the anniversary of my mom's death and desperately miss her. Please reach out as much as you need or want to. Ann

Laura I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you. We are here for you, kay

Lara, I am very sorry to hear that your mom passed away. I remember reading about her in your profile in the past. I lost my mom 9 years ago, and I still miss her terribly so I know how you are feeling. Pleases keep in mind that your own progress can't suffer during this hard time. It is far too easy to pick up food for comfort. We both know, however, that food isn't the answer. Take care of yourself and hold on to the gifts that your mother gave your heart. Be honest with yourself and Francesca about how you are feeling and when you are upset don't forget to exercise. It really helps. Best to you and yours, Amy