getting myself together.

Being in Pittsburgh I have been able to eat better and start walking more. I will say I have been lonely some. Mainly because I have not had to do things as a single woman, but I am getting used to it. I think that things happen for a reason in life. I am talking to a nice young woman about maybe starting a relationship. The main thing is that I am taking things slow and have been honest with her about where I am in my life. Her mother had gastric bypass so she knows much of what I need to do to be successful and that helps. The biggest things is how young she is. I am 37 and she is 23. I honestly feel a connection with her and feel that the age thing should not matter, but I still have concerns. I will let you know how I am doing in the near future and of course I am here if anyone needs an ear. Take care Erin

Erin.... Glad to see that things are getting better for you. Word of advice...because I love you... Go slow with the relationship.... You were hurt so deeply with then ending of one relationship...you moved due to another relationship...now you are looking at starting another one. I would rather see Erin be for Erin then for somebody else. I want you to be happy... and I want you to do well... Needless to say, part of this..is getting yourself where you want to be... I am thinking of you..and only wanting what is best for you!!!!

Oh I totally agree with you. It is all about me now and I do need to take things extremely slow. I have told this girl my issues and that I need to take things very slow. Thank you for your words take care Erin

Glad to see you back on the board Erin. I agree...take some time for you. You need that time to heal emotionally. You've been through alot. Remember, we are here if you need us. Rachelle