QOTD Friday, 10/6

TGIF!!!!!! What is the one thing that you never did in high school/college that you wish you would have done? Believe it or not, I wish I had been a little more promiscuous back then. I was so self consous of my body that I didn't do anything sexually until I was 23 and with someone I really trusted. (BTW, that happens to be Chris, my partner now, but that was years before we entered into a serious relationship). I really feel that I missed out on some experimental fun. Rachelle

TGIF Hey Rachelle.. I hope you have a great weekend!! I wish I would of "came out" to everyone earlier. Only a hand full of people knew so I did a lot of lying and sneaking around. Oh well, everything worked out good. kay

You enjoy the weekend also. I'm spending time with the nephews this weekend and I'm really looking forward to it.

What is the one thing that you never did in high school/college that you wish you would have done? I know this sounds weird, but I don't believe in regrets or things like that at all. Whenver you look back and think "If I had only done this differently" what people never think about is the ripple effects of that change in your path. You are the sum of your experiences. So I embrace all my bad, good, and lack of choices from my past. I would love to say I wish had had done this, that, or the other a little more or less but I am very happy with the person I am on the inside right now and I would hate to think that would change if I gave up some of the stuff from my past.

You know...that is a great answer. It doesn't sound weird, it sounds intelligent. Rachelle

What is the one thing that you never did in high school/college that you wish you would have done? Nothing!! I was a jock, an intellect, and a hussy!! Have a GREAT weekend. XOXOXO, Sharyn

You Go Sharyn!!!!

The only thng I wish I could have done in high school was stood up for myself a little better. I was ridiculed a lot in high school, was kind of a geek, really. I don't think I would have wanted to be more "popular", but I wish I wouldn't have let people get to me as much as I did. But as Cam said, we are the accumulation of our past experiences and I like who I am now and wouldn't want that to change.

My senior year in college there was a new guy (hot, hot, hot BTW) in my program who became very friendly with me. I was still in the closet and scared to death to even think about trying to make a move on him although, in retrospect, he was sending all the right messages. I discovered several years later that the fraternity he pledged at our school was actually THE fraternity that all the gay guys joined. I sure wish I had been braver then. Steve

I wish I would have been able to be a stronger person back then. I was very sensitive and really did care what people did and say way too much. I still care, but not as much. I really did not like myself in high school and I put blame on everyone else for my weight issues. I wish I would have been able to deal with things better.