Another update from someone who has been MIA...
Susan, I'm at loss of words...What you going through must be very-very hard for you . Hard emotionally, physically, and mentally(and I'm not even touching financial). I have a 9y.o. and 15 mo. old boys but I've never gone through anything (knock o wood) even remotly close to what you are dealing with now. I do hope that now that you've established Your Sons diagnosis, you will be able to find some combination of meds, therapy, and right school environment that will work to prevent future outbreaks of his condition. Your boy is blessed to have you as his Mother.
All the best to you,hugs to you and your son, Rita