Sex issues after Gastric Bypass...HELP

I would not normally post a question about something as intimate as sex, but I am at a cross roads and need HELP!! I am engaged to a wonderful man and we had a wonderful sex life, but it seems like since surgery I have lost interest in being intimate with him. I have lost 90 pounds and feel fantastic and sexy but I feel like I am missing out emotionally and sexually. I don't know what's wrong with me...is this normal? Did anyone else experience this? I am just going nuts? HELP HELP HELP!!! Nicole

OMG I discovered the WLS and Sex communities message board last night (because someone posted a message about it being there yesterday). I think the humor of those people were absolutely wonderful!! I cracked up at some and found others to be very infomative! Go find that message board, fix a mixed drink (water and protein powder!!) and sit back for a good chuckle! Kathy

Heyyy, I'm that someone! The people on that board post alot and not usually all WLS stuff and it does feel good to get my mind off my upcoming surgery! Enjoy some laughs! And they are great about answering questions too. Love, Barb