I NEED YOU ALL HELP! MY SISTER IS OVER 600 POUNDS!!!

Ebony K.
on 12/7/08 5:04 am - Snellville, GA
Like i had mentioned in my original post she attempted surgery earlier.  Actually before I did myself...but the doctors would not clear hear for surgery back then because they didn't think her heart would hold up on the table and her respiratory issues. 

She has white coat syndrome bad, but I think at this point she would do the surgery if someone would operate.  But I think her pre-existing conditions will hold her back from being able to have the surgery done.

She went into the hospital earlier this year, that was a big ordeal because she was having serious repiratory issues.  But I was saddened because while she was in there they did not even discuss her weight issue.  She was in ICU and everything...but their focus at the time was her breathing and once that was corrected they sent her home.  No mention of her dietary setup.  She does have home healthcare coming to the house now but she needs help mental, physically, etc...so get through all of her longtime weight issues.
drkangel101
on 5/6/09 1:08 pm - lawrenceville, GA
as i sit hear in tears ........ I am so sorry  , this brings back so many memories of my friend  who passed three years ago , this why everyone if we are blessed with the opportunity to have this surgery  we should take full advantage and work it to our advantage and  do not take it  for granted, yes there are risks and complications but  our friends and families  who have lost loved ones to obesity  or complications of obesity no first hand that  there are risks being fat too  so do we let  our fear of the unknown  take  our whole lives from us  or do we look up and say  God this is when I need to see one set of foot prints I need you to carry me because I know  your ill  will never take me where your grace can not protect me., Faith is the soul daring to go beyond what the eyes can see.............. again I am so sorry my prayers are with you and your family !!


"you never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"
LaShelle2
on 5/6/09 2:53 am - STOCKBRIDGE, GA
did you ever get any help for your sister? I think of her sometimes.  You never posted on the board after your question. I'd like to know how she is doing?

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Ebony K.
on 5/6/09 5:35 am - Snellville, GA
LaShelle~

I wasn't able to save my sister she passed away on December 30th.  She suffered a fall in her home and we were unable to get her back up from her fall. She ultimately passed out and eventually died at the hospital.    Thanks for continuing to think about her...if you are dealing with some weight issues please use her as a catalyst to help yourself beat obesity!

I miss her soooooooooooo much we were sooooo close and now I hurt everyday since I have lost her.  Feel free to check out her website...as she was an artist and helped so many people.  Also, view or sign her guestbook if you'd like.  www.freewebs.com/giftsbysherri

Ebony
LaShelle2
on 5/6/09 5:59 am - STOCKBRIDGE, GA
Ebony I am sorry to hear about her loss, but now that she is in heaven she is healed from all her suffering. You did everything you could to help her. I know you must have been a great sister and friend to her.

If there is ever anything I can do for you let me know. I am just an e-mail away.

               **** I AM AN OH SUPPORT GROUP LEADER ****
WHY I CHOSE DS: 
No dumping.  Highest percentage of weight loss, Best long term results,  Won't regain weight!  Eat normal sized meals,  96% diabeties, 90% high blood pressure, 80% sleep apnea cured.                                    I  MY DS!
My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four unless there were three other people.    ~Orson Wells  

LaShelle2
on 12/7/08 2:59 am - STOCKBRIDGE, GA
Just wanted to let you know I read your profile and was so inspired. Where are the after pics girl??? I know you must be proud of your new body.

               **** I AM AN OH SUPPORT GROUP LEADER ****
WHY I CHOSE DS: 
No dumping.  Highest percentage of weight loss, Best long term results,  Won't regain weight!  Eat normal sized meals,  96% diabeties, 90% high blood pressure, 80% sleep apnea cured.                                    I  MY DS!
My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four unless there were three other people.    ~Orson Wells  

Amy Williams
on 12/14/08 10:39 am
What type of insurance does she have?


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drkangel101
on 5/6/09 12:01 pm - lawrenceville, GA
I say do whatever you have to do go wherever you have to go , I dont want to scare you but my friend who was 24 years old and about 5'5 -5-6 and 500lbs tried to get the surgery  and they denied her  and she tried again needless to say she died and she died on Monday and on Friday  her sister got a letter in the mail of approval  it broke lal our hearts we were so angry  she left behind my 3 yr old God daughter all because  they didnt approve her the first time had the apporved her she would be alive she died of lung failure she was on oxygen. So I say  if  even if you have to go to the news there was a teenage boy  well he was 17 and he was  pretty  big but he couldnt get approved for the surgery  and couldnt afford to pay  and his mom went to the news and   they found a doctor an hour or so from them that did it for free!! God can work  miracles, like I said   call every doctor you can find  someone will do it , if not go to th emedia  someone will come forward ..........I will be praying for your sister !!!
LaShelle2
on 5/6/09 12:40 pm, edited 5/6/09 12:40 pm - STOCKBRIDGE, GA
DkAngel you're a sweetheart, but she posted her sister passed away in December.   This was a follow up from an old post before you came on board.  Sorry for the misunderstanding Ebony.

               **** I AM AN OH SUPPORT GROUP LEADER ****
WHY I CHOSE DS: 
No dumping.  Highest percentage of weight loss, Best long term results,  Won't regain weight!  Eat normal sized meals,  96% diabeties, 90% high blood pressure, 80% sleep apnea cured.                                    I  MY DS!
My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four unless there were three other people.    ~Orson Wells  

drkangel101
on 5/6/09 1:01 pm, edited 5/6/09 11:03 pm - lawrenceville, GA
dang Im sorry .................I didn't realize she has already passed (feeling like crap).......It was on the most recent posts on my home page..............
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