People's opinions of you
I have noticed that as I get to a more "normal" size since the surgery, some people I know seem to treat me differently. I felt as though they looked at me like I was less of a person when I was fat and now they seem more accepting. I don't feel any different in how I act, only that I'm not as big as I was. Did anyone else have any experiences like this? Or was that feeling of non-acceptance by others all in my head? Have a great day and don't forget to get out and vote!
Linda
Linda,
I am noticing that too as I lose more weight. I really feel that I dont seem to be "invisible" to people like before. I dont ever want to treat people the way I have been treated as a fat person. That is one reason I hope that I dont forget how it was to be obese, but post ops who have reached goal, say you dont need to hang on to those memories. I guess I'll know for myself when I get there.
Amy
Amy, I agree you shouldn't forget where you came from as to the weight loss, and always have compassion for people. I think you need to move on and not dwell on the past, but I hope to never forget. If you forget, I think you set yourself up to fail somewhere in the future. That's why I get those fat jeans out now and realize how far I've come. But it does irritate me that some people that knew me fat seem to see me as "better" now that I look normal. I never want to treat the obese that way! Don't forget it's what's inside that counts!
Linda
I agree with all you gals have said, I was just thinking about that last night as I drove home... One think that I have noticed is that people are more cordial to me; ie: I am invited to more gatherings, people open doors for me, and I even get offered the right of way in traffic more often... I hope I never forget, so I don't treat people the way I was treated. -Flávia 
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