Dating? Post Op? Help

Hi, I am about 9 weeks post op. I have lost about 35 llbs. I am looking very cury and loving all the attention it gets me. But I am going to lose more. Hopefully 100 llbs. How do I go about dating. If I meet a man and it gets serious. It will obviously cause he like the triple thick shake, I represent at present. Will will happen when I keep losing. lmao I know this sounds silly. But I keep thinking I will meet a cool, guy that just loves the big girl, not the incredible shrinking woman. Let me know of any experiences or thoughts on this. Rj

After nearly 32 years of marriage my husband still says he married me for my body -- and he's really enjoying the new one I have now. But, he's had some adjustments to make too. Fact is, I know he loves me for me! You will have men who like the voluptuous woman while others like the smooth thinner lines. Either way, make sure you invest your time in someone who is interested in you personally -- just the way you are. luvitsunnyv

i dotn think you should "get serious" until you are at least one year out... i say this because so many things will be changing for you.. and i tink you know where im goin with this

If he likes you for you, he will also embrace the incredible shrinking woman because she is becoming happier and healthier. Most men that like curvier women, like ALL women in general, not just BBW, at least that has been my experience. If he cant handle you losing weight and gaining confidence then he probably isnt the right guy for you anyway. I also agree with Alexa though, focus on YOURSELF right now during the honeymoon period and don't worry about dating yet. If it's meant to be, it will happen