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my daughter is in need of help she is 36 years old and weighs about 425 lbs she is the mother of my 7 year old grandson and she is a good person how do we get her some help we have tried every diet under the sun she will die if we don't do something there is no money for surgery she does have insurance with bcbs of florida

I really understand how you feel. However, is she willing to have surgery? Is she willing to change her lifestyle, with help? I too have BCBS of FL and they were useless,,,my coverage anyway. I opted for the LAP-BAND. I am very happy with this less invasive procedure, and because my little girl was 7 also (and my baby, only 3,,,single parent), I wasn't willing to be that 1 in 100 that might have life threatning complications. That being said, I have had to work at changing habbits, and following the rules of the band. I have lost 70 pounds in 6 months, and finally broke the 300 dreds!!!! All the different WLS options have their own forum here. Reasearch all you can. You will find the perfect procedure for you ( your daughter).