Body looks better than ever but the scale isn't budging...grrr
I'm 7 1/2 months out, 5' 8" and 170 lbs. I have VSG and don't malabsorb.
So some of you know that my *thing* is weight training. I was warned by my super-buff sleeve sister that once I started really committing myself to lifting heavy, I probably wouldn't see the changes on the scale as much as on my body. So far, this is proving to be true. Still, it is frustrating because my doctor wants me to get to 160 and I feel like I may never get there, even though my body looks pretty good for having lost 104 lbs, I'm still guessing I have about 5 lbs of skin on my tummy/midsection - or more. I know I need a tummy tuck, breast lift/reduction, and could probably use a LBL but that's not in the cards for me.
I am noticing big changes in my arms, legs, boobs (believe it or not), and waist. I look good in fitted workout pants and fitted racerback tanks (something I NEVER though I'd wear to the gym in this lifetime!), so I'm thrilled about that. But that dang scale taunts me!!
Do you think with my lifting I may never get to 160? My personal goal was 150 but I'm really thinking that's unrealistic for my body type... I dunno. My goal is to get my body fat lower and my muscles much larger, but I'm getting impatient and considering adding calories and carbs so I can add more muscle (because my ultimate goal is bodybuilding). I'm just not sure what to do from here - maintain my average 700-800 calories a day until I make goal, or increase calories risking never hitting goal - yes I know my calories are low but I still can eat very little. Because I have been really tired/drained since I started lifting, I have been trying to increase my calories by using milk in my shakes, adding peanut butter to my shakes, etc. but I'm trying to do it gradually so that I don't gain fat, but I'm still only hitting around 800 calories on a high day.
I should add that I do HIIT on the treadmill 3-4 times per week, and have no intentions of doing much more cardio than this. I despise cardio so it's never going to happen. I lift 3-4 days a week.
I'm just really confused about where to keep my calories. I did a calculation on a bodybuilding forum and according to that I should be eating 1,700 calories a day and still lose weight, but that seems super high...? Do I just keep doing what I'm doing until I lose more fat, or do I increase my calories and hopefully see improvement that way?
Some pics for reference...you can see I'm starting to get muscles/definition, but I clearly could stand to lose another 10lbs of fat easily, if not more.
actually getting a tiny bit of quad definition
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I know, I'm really trying to eat more. The other day I put forth some serious effort to eat, and I felt like I was eating all day long and I still only ate 750 calories!! I was like wtheck, man!!
A big part of the problem is that I can only eat about 2 oz of dense protein at a time. 1/2 cup of cottage cheese at a sitting is my max. I've had to go back to 2 protein shakes a day just to get in more than 65g of protein a day. I'm not whining, since this is why I had the surgery afterall...but I admit it's tough now that I want to add muscle. I know I'll need to do much better than I'm doing now with my diet.
I've been shopping around for a good bodybuilding routine and I really love this one (you have a push day, pull day, lift day, and leg day, love love love this routine). The trainer is on my bodybuilding forum and he works with people directly to help them set up a routine based on their goals. I'm just not sure if I should wait until I lose more fat or if I should start now (assuming I'll be able to eat more).
http://www.2020-wellness.com/gst/
eta: Oh wait, can I eat cheesecake three times a day? That might be a solution. I KEED!
You can eat 800 calories a day or eat 1600 with the same volume by changing what you eat. Don't automatically reach for the "diet" versions of things or non-fat this and reduced fat that, for example.
I still eat carrots and cottage cheese because I like them but these are things that fill you up without providing a lot of calories. I also eat nuts every day, sometimes more than one serving and I've added fruit back in my diet as well.
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I try to get my carbs up a bit for energy mostly, but I don't find carbs especially appealing anymore. I did eat some Tricuits yesterday (too salty). Actually, nothing is very appealing anymore which I attribute to ghrelin reduction. I don't feel hunger and there isnt a food that I can think of lately that makes me go "mmm I could chow down on that!" Both good things, but bad when one *needs* to eat, ya know? I'm worried that if I increase my calories too much, I will just gain fat. Ugh.
I can eat a whole Atkins bar, but my husband hogged them all. LOL
(it's 2:22 pm and I've had only 400 calories so far today, aye aye aye)
What's funny is my husband said to me, "Well dear, you might have to drink some of that weight gainer stuff." That's just crazy talk! No way is something called "weight gainer" going past these lips. lol
One day I'm sure I'll be wishing I had this super restriction again!
Thx for this info.
I am seeing this late because I am just now searching the site for the same issue.
I had RNY 11 months ago and lost 110 lbs. Frustrated because I want to lose another 10 lbs. fat while gaining muscle mass.
I eat 2200 cals a day with 200 grams of protein a day, (This being a 20% calorie deficit based on my workouts) and the scale has not dropped in many weeks, and muscle gains are really slow.
Did you have a good balance to get body fat percentage down to where you want?
It sounds like you need to eat a more balance diet. Just adding a little milk and peanut butter to a very low calorie diet, doesn't seem like a long term healthy plan. You are probably exhausted because your body isn't being fueled properly. I would focus on a healthy balance diet. I think you'll get better results and not to mention...you'll feel much better. I can't imagine you have a very balance diet eating the calories you do. We have to remember...we need to learn to eat properly for a lifetime of healthy living. Eating poorly might give us a short pay off, but the long term results will not be good.
I think if you studied the diet of a bodybuilder you would be surprised by the amount of calories they take in. A healthy and natural body builder's results come from eating a healthy balance diet and hard work. It requires both.
As far as your body goes, if you're happy with what you see in the mirror, why doesn't it matter what the scale reads unless you are underweight? My PS believe it or not...gave me a stern talk about body imagine, size, and the scale. We sometimes, get a little nuts about it and need a reality check. If your pleased with your results in the mirror, forget about the scale. Unless of course, you dipped too low, being underweight is just as dangerous as being overweight.
Best wishes!