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Ladybug092208
on 5/18/10 8:47 am - carbondale, pa
Topic: RE: hazleton pa - rny - penpal
hi and ur right you need support and some times it has to ONLY come from us who have been in your shoes and know where you are going, i have two younger sisters and until surgery i was always the FAT ONE WITH THE PRETTY FACE, now they arent so nice to me and whatever i do they always have something negative to say and just think they are better. i didnt have surgery for ANYONE BUT MYSELF and so be it that i may not of had there support and to say my mom didnt want me to have it and hear 8 yrs later it really doesnt even matter.
gin
Ladybug092208
on 5/18/10 8:43 am - carbondale, pa
Topic: RE: hazleton pa - rny - penpal
I had surgery almost 8 years ago by Dr. Willaim Peters in Scranton PA, he is a awesome doctor, and you can view my journey on his web site from the moment I met him for almost the first year i journaled it all there and at home kept a journal of everything, how i was feeling, to what i ate and what i threw up, i tracked my weight, measurements, you name it i wrote it down, check me out on the site its www.cutweight. org and go under the pt directory and its under Ginny B.
I didnt have to fast at all and i am glad for that i was allowed to eat up until midnight the night before surgery, however the first two weeks after surgery was all liquids but i didnt want anything to eat and then i had an egg for my 1st meal and youd thought it was a million dollars when i ate it...lol

Yes  it was a HUGE emotional adjustment for me and a LIFE STYLE change that i still deal with on a day to day basis, there are days when i want to eat the things that made me have wls to begin with, we call those "THE BIG MAC, FRIES AND SHAKE SUPER SIZED DAYS", can i eat that HELL NO and if i didnt have surgery would i , HELL YES!!!
I get til this day would get serious dumping if i dont monitor my intake of carbs, fats and sugars and i NEVER eat anything with more than 15 grams of sugar in it and dont eat much fried foods but still have an time to time visit to KFC or BK but i dont depreive myself and of coarse i only can eat a kids meal and thats pushing it, i dont eat much rice, bread or pasta as it just dont want to fit thru my opening of my stomach and i listened very very very closly and i didnt stretch my pouch out much at all and thats REALLY IMPORTANT the first year and maybe even into the second year, i had a egg size pouch the day i had surgery and they say its suppose to stretch some and should now 8 years later almost hold about 1 to 1 1/2 cup of food, nahhhhh, not even close, maybe 1 cup and thats on a good day, i was strick and very hard on myself and still am with eating and still have days when eating isnt the greatest thing to brag about,
i have friends who had surgery who now weigh more than when they had surgery, i have freinds who are thin now but are alcholics or bulmic, thats something you may want to read about and learn its called addiction transfer and thats what i have a FOOD ADDICTION or EATING DISORDER and with surgery i just now have it under control or should i say in recovery.
I could ramble on and on but check on the site n read mine and some other info and let me know how else i can help, i will say the day i had surgery i weighed 358lbs and today i weighed 124lbs, my goal was to just get to 199lbs and once i went under that i was ok and been this weight now inbwtn 124-129 for over two years and i love every minute of it,
take care and talk soon
gin
Gailkv
on 5/18/10 8:22 am - Dunedin, New Zealand
Topic: RE: Wanting pen-pal
Hi Pat,
I would love to be your pen-pal. I had my RNY last July and am now feeling really great and am nearly at my goal weight. My doctor is happy with what I now weigh but I would like to loose 4 more pounds.
It is the beginning of winter here and I am not sure what you are like but I always seem to eat more in winter so I am going to have to be extra careful.
My email address is [email protected]
I wish you all the best for your DS.
Hope to hear from you soon, kind regards, Gail
Gail        
doodlebug125
on 5/18/10 3:52 am - TN
Topic: RE: I would love to find a pen pal in Tennessee
hey im from the knoxville area i will be ur penpal, im having the gastric bypass surgrey tomorrow but i will be home by next week hopefully, and i  will chat with u, i used to eat desserts too alot but now i dont even like them.
my name is beth

hampsonbennett
on 5/18/10 1:20 am
Topic: RE: Wanting pen-pal
Gail - When I read your posting, I thought I was too late.  I looked again and figured that if you only posted in February, then perhaps you were still looking for a pen pal.  I'm scheduled for a DS in July, I got scheduled in April.
Pat
(deactivated member)
on 5/17/10 8:44 am
Topic: RE: 67 year young conservative Atlantan with a Lap Band would like a penpal
We both were in the waiting room at the hospital and you had your surgery a week before mine. Here is my email keep in touch. I have moved away from Georgia and live in New Mexico. It is [email protected]

Lavontia T Broussard
teelcap
on 5/17/10 5:23 am
Topic: RE: Penpal me?!
Hi
I am also looking for a penpal,  I am 37 yrs old. had RNY on 4/14/10.
dollybigmomma
on 5/16/10 9:46 pm - TX
Topic: Looking for friends around Austin
I'm a stay at home mom from Round Rock, Texas and am in the fifth month of my six month insurance (Aetna) process, and I would love to have conversations with anyone who has had a GBS, especially if you are local to me.  I weigh around 475 right now with diabetes, gout, arthritis, you name it.  Regardless of what your experience has been,  I would like to hear about it.  Please, no one selling anything!  By the way, does anyone know about any local clothing swaps?
CathyJ248
on 5/16/10 10:24 am - Monroeville, PA
Topic: RE: pennsylvania
Hi, I am currently in Hawaii on vacation.  The first one in 15 years.  I will be back in touch next week when I return.  thanks for writing.  CathyJ. 
Linda819
on 5/16/10 10:05 am - Philadelphia, PA
Topic: RE: hazleton pa - rny - penpal
Hi, I'm from Philly.  Have been doing all my preliminary testing.  My Psych, Nutrition & Physical Therapy appt is this Thursday.  My surgeon stated the date is usually about 2 months after for my RNY.  Would love to hear from anyone.  I haven't confided in my siblings too much because I know they are not happy and I don't need negative feelings.  I get enpugh of that from strangers.  My daughter is very supportive.
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