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I would love to be penpals... I have a lapband and I am gaining weight...back up to 240 need to get back under 200 is the first goal......
Hey! I am a 27 yr old momma of 2 (boys, ages 2 1/2 and 1) who is trying to lose weight on my own before consulting for surgery. I am a military wife, currently living in Virginia and would love someone to talk to every day or every other day! I have tried to find a WL penpal before, only they all needed to lose 30lbs or less (nothing compared to my 150lb goal). They also felt very negative, like every time we messaged each other, they complained about EVERYTHING instead of us inspiring/motivating each other. It was very draining and bummed me out.
So, I am trying again to find the RIGHT penpal who a) understands needing to lose a lot of weight, b) can be a positive source of motivation (as I will be for you), and c) can message/email several times a week so we can hold each other accountable!
I've been thinking that perhaps a penpal who has the lapband and is going through some of the same things I am would be good. Someone who wouldnt mind talking telling me about them and them about me....just a thought. I know people @ my job who have the lapband...but I really don't want to put my business out there if you know what I mean. SO if there are any interested people out there please let me know. Thank you
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If you are interested send me a message!! I just turned 32 years old today!!
Hi Barb, thanks for answering my post. How far away from Hot-lanta do you live? We lived in Roswell, just north of the city, for 4 years. We left in 1996, just before the Olympics. I don't miss the traffic there at all.
Have you had your consults? Do you have a date?
I have decided to have the surgery if the doctors feel I am a candidate and if my insurance approves it. I am continuing to read books about the surgery and life afterwards, and I'm eating a high protein diet with none of the food that are banned after surgery. I'm trying to exercise more, but it's pretty much the pool because I'm not supposed to do weight bearing exercises because of my joints. I also have a couple of chair exercise and yoga DVDs.I just haven't tried them yet. 
"Perseverance, secret of all triumphs." ~ Victor Hugo 
Highest weight: 290; Weight at Surgery: 231; Current Weight: 126 (as of most recent Sunday)
Hi, we are close in age, weight, and I am just a little ahead of you in making a decision regarding surgery. It is a big decision and very personal, but sure is nice to share with someone. Do all the research that you can, make a list of questions, most likely they will be answered before you even ask them. In case they aren't just ask. Remember this is personal and those that don't live with obesity can't understand, and even those who are obese until they get to the point of considering surgery might not get it either.
Hello Gingertate, I am a banster that had Lapband surgery since 2009. I hope that you are taking things one day at a time. I will tell you tihis is one of the best decisions that I have made in my life. I could weigh less if I were consistent with exercise. I went from 264lbs and I am now around 176lbs. I
Hi Ellen! it sounds as tho' we have more than one struggle to share....thank you for responding and yes, I am more than happy to be present for you because I know the struggleall too well...contact me any time....Denise
Good morning. I am interested. You are the only person who answered. I guess we are the only ones struggling and willing to talk about it. My name is Ellen by the way. I was 301 lbs and 70+ yrs old in 1/11/11 and had gastric bypass on that day. I lost 100 lbs and then because I am unable to walk, I started regaining. I then lost hope and started eating like I shouldn't. Then began the up and down. I am now 218 and scared to death I will gain another pound. I thought If I could just get a handle on it again. Maybe if I could share my struggle. Maybe someone could help me try harder. Hence I asked for a penpal. Maybe we can help each other hold on.
I have lost and gained over and over again...tried many different programs....with the help of friends and without...I am looking for someone who KNOWS the struggle and is willing to offer support and friendship on the journey. I have recently started to lose weight again and need a positive voice in my ear from time to time...but also a voice that is honest when I need to hear some painful truths....I am 55 with some mobility issues that make typical exercise difficult...I can offer what I ask for myself....if you're interested? let me know! thanks!
