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Topic: RE: I need a friend who understands lap band surgery things
Hi Stacie....my name is Jill and i had surg 12/17--would love to have a friend on here...im new to it like you...but have a friend that is six months out with it too. I live in Houston...also on [email protected]
Jill
Jill
Topic: RE: I could use a FRIEND!
Rhonda (Apple)
Hi Coreen,
Are you finding yourself even more nervous that your big day is in TWO days??? I know you will be just fine. If I can assist you in any way...please feel free to send me a email! I am a great listener!!!!
Best wishes!
Are you finding yourself even more nervous that your big day is in TWO days??? I know you will be just fine. If I can assist you in any way...please feel free to send me a email! I am a great listener!!!!
Best wishes!
If you can believe it, you can achieve it!!! NOTHING is impossible!!
Rhonda (Apple)
Topic: RE: 'New friends from anywhere...I'm from Southern Ontario, Canada
If I can be of any help let me know :)
Also come to the Ontario forum if you'd like.
Dawn
Also come to the Ontario forum if you'd like.
Dawn
17+ years post op RNY. first year blog here or My LongTimer blog. Tummy Tuck Dr. Matic 2014 -Ohip funded panni Windsor WLS support group.message me anytime!
HW:290 LW:139 RW: 167 CW: 139
Topic: RE: Looking for a friend going through gastric bypass surgery
Hi Amy; I had to do the 6 month program also before my surgery...it is good to start working on routines that you will have once you do the surgery, get in protein first, practice the no drinking with meals....before you know it you will be done with this part and moving on to the actual surgery. Just keep working at it even when it gets like it is too much...it will be so worth it for you in the end!! Feel free to message me anytime

Topic: RE: I could use a FRIEND!
I am trying to lose my 10% before I see the surgeon, so I have been drinking protein shakes 2x day then have a sensible protein/veggie dinner. I have lost 15lbs...but tonight I am struggling. My husband is very supportive, but tonight he cooked himself some tacos and they smell soooo good. I am going to Kaiser Fremont for my surgery and I am not sure how long it will be until I get a date. I hope by losing lbs. some before my 1st consult that will put me on the "express lane". lol
Topic: RE: I could use a FRIEND!
I have to say that I had an awesome support team...my husband, my boys, my boss....they have dealt with my neverending journey to the new me. They will be important to keep you grounded sometimes, as you change and sometimes get overwhelmed with the change they can make you see yourself the way they do. I even now at 18 months out still see the fat me and they force me to look at the new me! Let them know what you will be doing with your eating, etc because they really will wonder if you are eating enough.....and let them know that the doctor is the one that you will listen to when it comes to whether you need to lose more or if you are good....everyone around me kept telling me to stop losing only because they were so used to seeing the fat me; the doctor gave me a number and I went to that number even when people freaked out....now that they are used to me at this weight they are happy for me.
Enjoy the journey, you will be amazed at how your life will change!
Enjoy the journey, you will be amazed at how your life will change!
Highest weight 268; goal weight 150; current weight 136
Topic: RE: I could use a FRIEND!
Rhonda (Apple)
Hi there!
You are so special! Thank you for choosing me to reach out to! Congratulations on your consult...are you excited? I had my PAT (pre-admissions testing) on yesterday and my excitement flew through the roof! I am so looking forward to life after surgery! I wish we could just skip over next week
; but I guess I need that time too to organize around my place. OH MY GOODNESS! Again, thank you SO very much for reaching out to me. Know that if you find yourself needing some support and encouragement, I am just a few clicks away
You are so special! Thank you for choosing me to reach out to! Congratulations on your consult...are you excited? I had my PAT (pre-admissions testing) on yesterday and my excitement flew through the roof! I am so looking forward to life after surgery! I wish we could just skip over next week


If you can believe it, you can achieve it!!! NOTHING is impossible!!
Rhonda (Apple)
Topic: RE: I could use a FRIEND!
Rhonda (Apple)
Hi! Thank you for the open invitation for all the questions that I am sure I will have
...I am SO happy, I now have tears in my eyes! I find myself having to encourage those closest to me that I am going to be fine and my life will do nothing but change for the better. As I encourage them, I encourage mysself the more!! Can I ask you, "what kind of support" or better yet how can I tell my family/friends to be there for me? I don't know what to expect and they ask me to write down everything that I am going to need help with and I can't find any anwsers for them.

If you can believe it, you can achieve it!!! NOTHING is impossible!!
Rhonda (Apple)
Topic: RE: I could use a FRIEND!
Rhonda (Apple)
Ms Sandra,
OMG! Thank you SOOOO much! Your words really touched me...thank you for reaching out to me! I had my PAT on yesterday and all night long all I could say was, "OH MY GOODNESS! OH MY GOODNESS! OH MY GOODNESS!" I am SO excited about such a change! How has your life changed since the surgery?
OMG! Thank you SOOOO much! Your words really touched me...thank you for reaching out to me! I had my PAT on yesterday and all night long all I could say was, "OH MY GOODNESS! OH MY GOODNESS! OH MY GOODNESS!" I am SO excited about such a change! How has your life changed since the surgery?
If you can believe it, you can achieve it!!! NOTHING is impossible!!
Rhonda (Apple)