Indiana woman looking for a pen pal

My name is Polly and I live in Indiana and I am looking for a pen pal. Back in March I was suppose to have my surgery and backed out. I would love to have someone to talk to and to share my fears with. Someone that I can confide in. If you are that person please e-mail me.

Hi Polly... I live in MI so I'm not too far from you. I know that deciding to have this surgery is a very scary thing. But I can tell you, being 3 yrs post-op, and expecting my 2nd child as early as next week (and had a very healthy pregnancy because of the surgery!) that it is totally worth it. I'd be happy to offer you support and a shoulder to lean on. Jen

I am sorry it took so long to get back with you. I was trying to find out how I found this new site on here. I finally found it. Thank you for replying. It was April when I was suppose to have the surgery. March is a typo. But I got to the hospital the day of surgery and go in to the room where you wait and have the nurses to poke and prod you to look for a site to put the needle at and I totally freaked out. I did not know what to expect or if they had done enough tests. Which to come to find out there was not enough tests. I should have had a sleep study done and did not have it so I am on a list to have a sleep study done. We in Shelbyville Indiana do not have a sleep study program so we are getting a new one a couple doors down from my doctor. So I am on the list waiting for them to move in. I had questions at the same time that I freaked out. Since then I have been attending the support group meetings and faithfully attending them. I hope to have the surgery in March but I have also put this decision into the lords hands. If it is a will for me to have the surgery then it will be his will to pull me through. By the way congrats on your new baby. I also want to find out if you had any concerns about the surgery after you had it. I also want to see if you have backed out of the surgery as well before you had the surgery. Thank you Your pen pal Polly

HI POLLY, I,M DANETTE FROM OHIO . I HAD MY SURGERY DEC-04 . I WEIGHT 405 NOW I WEIGHT 290. I WAS SCARED TO HAVE IT BUT I DIDN,T WANMT TO FEEL THE WAY I DID . I,M RAISING MY GRANDKIDS . I DID REGRET HAVEING IT THE FIRST MONTH. BUT I,LD DO AGAIN . YOU GO THUR UP,S, DOWNS TRUST ME . DRINK ALO****ER . EAT FRUIT, VEGS. YOU WILL GET THUR IT.