Needing a pen pal to "lean on"

Hi folks! I'm 31 and an at home mom here and I'm going to be having my surgery next month. Gosh am I starting to get reeeeally nerved up. I don't have any family living around here and my husband hasn't been much help at all. You know the type ladies; the ones who can eat whatever and not gain whatever? Thats mine. I do have a lady named Jennifer whos my buddy and confidante right now. (HI jennda ((()))) lol ) It would really be nice though to find some more people though who are about to go through the RNY surgery to talk with. My surgery is scheduled forthe 28th of next month and scared doesnt begin to describe how I'm feeling right now! I know theres got to be some folks out there who are getting close to their surgery date or can offer up some helpful advice. My ears are both open. My email is [email protected] It will be alot quicker to email this way.

Hi, Monica My name is Angela W. I have not had the surgery yet and I still have a long way to go. I have yet to decide which surgery is better for me. How did you decide? I guess I would prefer the bypass, but I must say I am concern with the complex procedure and the sagging skin. I am sorry I can not provide any information that will help you, but I can encourage and pray for your upcoming surgery dated for the 28th of next month. Well I wont keep you any longer. Hope to hear from you soon.