Hi everyone

Hi there. My name is Anna and I had gastric bypass on December 21st, 2004. I am looking for someone to chat with either by internet or through mail. I am a mother of four girls. Three biologically and one adopted. I am married, but I am having alot of issues in my marriage. Now that I am losing weight and looking better, my husband tends to spend even less time with me. He stays up all hours of the night on the computer. If anyone is interested in chatting, send me an email.

Hi Anna! First let me say congrats on being on the losing side! I am still in the inital phases...seeing Drs Drs and more Drs....*lol*. Seriously, I hope to have my surgery sometime late March or maybe early April. That is if everything goes well and my Ins. approves me. I understand about having issues in marriages. I would love to have my husband to talk to about all of this. Although he says he supports whatever decision I make (now), he gets bored/upset/uncommunicative when I try to talk to him about things. I feel that when I have this surgery and start to lose weight things may get even more strained. My husband spends WAYYYY too much time on the internet (he works from home on his computer and then spends even more hours and hours 'playing'). Anyway, I understand and would love to find someone myself who I could talk to/confide in/learn from. Whoops...sorry I guess I got carried away....*lol* As if you couldn't tell, I LOVE to talk! (((Hugs))) Deb BTW I am also a mother of 4, all girls....3 are married and my baby is 15.