2 1/2 years post-op seeking pen pal

Hello! I'm a 37 year old female, post-op approx. 2 1/2 years Lap RNY. ( can't believe it's been that long!! ) I'm looking for a pen pal that is around the same post-op. I've run into the problem of the nearest local support group basically ending up as a "newbie" & "pre-op" type of meetings and the issues are so different for the longer term post-op. I haven't attended any support groups for quite awhile because of that reason. I did try out a Weigh****chers meeting but found that I felt uncomfrontable there because I'm basically at goal & got alot of "looks". I have been bouncing 3-5 lbs on the scales but OK with that fact, I feel that my surgury has been a success & very happy with the results. And I really want it to remain that way!! I haven't had complications & so far have been very healthy. But needing support/reminding due to the fact I'm beginning to slide on some big issues, making some bad food choices, not enough water intake, sliding on my vitamin intake & recently started smoking again. Well, hope thats enough basic info & hope to hear from someone soon!